2006-12-13 17:11:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Right or wrong is not the issue.
Your jealousy IS the issue.
Being jealous means you are insecure. If so, what is making you insecure between you and your girlfriend? You can't stop women from sharing between themselves about events or people in their lives but you CAN stop the flow of negativity between you and your girlfriend by overcoming your personal insecurities about her and/or your relationship.
The secret is in COMMUNICATION. Talk to your girlfriend. Tell her how you feel, what your insecurities are, and ask her how she can help you get over your jealousy.
Is there a reason for feeling that way? That would be the time to tell her WHY you are insecure about your relationship.
All I can say is, open up, spend more honest, emotional time with her, and if she truly values your relationship, she will help you overcome your fears and insecurities. Chances are, she will NOT want to divulge this information anymore with anyone because she'll be planning for her future.
So. Is it right? Many would say "no." But it is what women DO.
Stop the pity party and make your life more hearty.
Reach out to her.
Tell her how you feel.
And enjoy life.
Good luck to you my friend, and thanks for posting.
2006-12-13 17:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by GMarieP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. especially if she is your friend. you should tell her what its about no matter what it is. this can be applied to everything in your life 'simplicity' and 'honesty' tempered with 'berevity'.
Im talking about the big issues here of course, they will see you off to be a much happier person. Sometimes it might be hard, but always for the better. So even if the end result is you lose a friend, then all you truly lose is the illusion of a friend that may have not been or a friendship that may have already ended that you are just going through the paces of. Life is too short to hold things back and find yourself down a false path. The steps, they can become increasingly perilous to retrace back to zero while you recenter yourself.
2006-12-14 01:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she shouldn't have... but since she did, why don't you accept your lot in life? because when you accept yourself, you'll be happy with everything and everyone living around you :) and the best part is you won't be so jealous...
2006-12-14 01:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just deal w/ it. its no big deal. nothing to be humiliated about. get over it.
2006-12-14 01:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by mike h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men , that is totaly disgrace.. anyways talk to her & explained everything. its better you 3 will talk to each other to clear this out.
2006-12-14 01:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by CLoud9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's suppose to be between you and your girl
2006-12-14 01:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by Darren H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dats not rite at all
2006-12-14 01:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by SexyMami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋