Hi. I am 27-year-old guy masturbating from last 10 years. (When I was 19-22 yr, 3 to 4 times in a week but from last 2-3 years I don’t masturbate that much at least once a week or I ejaculate in night) When I woke up early in the morning only at that time I got hard erection.
My problem is as….
When ever I am reading any erotic story or watching sexy films or thinking about sex at that time I don’t get hard erection,
Even if when I masturbate at that time I don’t get.
Why this happens ????
i am worried because i am going to marry in few months. should i tell her my problem ??
2006-12-13 17:06:20 · 5 answers · asked by jimmi 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Some guys go through this as a way of stress, the masturbation thing is normal and the way you feel is normal, when you read or look at porn, in your mind you want to feel aroused but your body is saying no. that is normal. But if you actually have concerns then see a doc. otherwise you are just a bit under stress due to the wedding. Most people i know that got married had almost the same stuff happening. wait till after the wedding if anything doesn't change then see your doc.
gee i feel like i ran in circles for that.
Congrads on the wedding and Good luck!
2006-12-13 18:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by fawkes_flame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax ur prob is jst mental.....when u get a partner for urself that time surely u will get an erection as the feeling wld be natural and not artifical ones like watching porn or films.....not getting an erection while doing such things is normal cz u tend to overdo things hence they dnt interest u anymore so u lose ur erection...but when it comes to having sex in real life the situation is different....surely u will perform....jst relax.....
2006-12-14 04:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by rajdebrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that U have a problem. Go ahead and get married & U will know at the end of a month if U have a problem or not.
2006-12-14 03:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by Henry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to your Dr. first because with the new drugs like Viagra you may not need to warn her. Just get on the right medicine. Be sure though it isn't related to health.
2006-12-14 02:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by Eve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying! you will get hard enough erections when you are in bed with your wife!
2006-12-14 03:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋