How much do you really know your parents, your friends, that lover, what anyone is capable of? Here is a poem I wrote on tagged.com to answer my question to myself about someone I thought I knew:
When can I see truthfulness in his words after this? I have forgiven because my Heavenly Father above says I have to. But I haven't forgotten. How do you deal? How do you Heal? When all you thought and knew before, was never even Real. I never believed I would see him in that light..Mom was Right. Never had I Imagined, that the doubt would be back again. Maybe it will take some time, for me to hear his voice. I have made a decision to let me heal, I have made my choice. See yourself as you will my friends. Will you ever find another person under one's skin? Will you heal in the end? Maybe I will see sooner than not. The change in the road that broke my heart.
2006-12-13 15:53:22 · 3 answers · asked by darkorchid 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I loved your poem. How do you deal? How do you Heal? I gotta a feeling(not sure) that you were talking about a relative maybe your father? Just thinking .. dont take me wrong but was this family abusing you? Just me reading and taking in all of your poem. You have forgiven someone that did you wrong. Seems to me you have already found that other person under your skin. And yes you are healing in the process. You had your heart broken but you are taking the pieces and going forward in your life. Bless you for this beautiful poem. And I pray that you can go forward in your life. PEACE!
2006-12-13 16:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
great poem. your question however, I have learned unconditional love. meaning no expectation, that is as a result of the same question. The question, can I ever trust again?
Absolutely, I can trust people to be who they are, not who I want them to be. I can love someone today, then say I can't have you in my life. I need people who love unconditionally. All people are capable of evil, how strong their moral and ethical code of life is, determines if they are a risk to my serenity and and my code.
loving someone doesn't mean you have to continue to be used or abused, Love yourself First and you shall understand.
2006-12-13 16:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wah friggin wah. (sniff)
2006-12-13 16:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋