ok when i met my gf i fell in love with her sooooooooooooooooo crazy although i knew it that she is married but she fell in love with me too,so we became gfs secertly from her husband but her husband always feel that there is more than friendship between me and his wife but he's not sure about it anyway my gf got pregnant by acident from her husband and now she had a birth,after few weeks i met her husband online he didnot know that was me and i didnot know either at the beggnin but then when he started telling me how happy he is,he got a beautifull wife,a cute baby boy,good job he's just soo happy but he feels that there is this girl (me)who stole his wife's heart and he's ready to do anythin to get his wife's heart back..
i know i love her sooo much and we both planned that after she get her baby she will get divorced from her husband and we both gonna raise the baby,now i feel soo guilty for her husband and i dont know what to do
2006-12-13 15:24:59 · 6 answers · asked by stang girl 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well if he aint feeding that dog she'll eat somewhere.. people won't starve... perhaps you two need to explain to him that this is IT.. he can go along or be ad even bigger loser thant he already is. he's prolly porkin other women anyway.. everyone cheats..everyone you're a cheater, she's a cheater, he's a cheater, your dads a cheater.. you mom prolly a cheater too!.. just ride that train!
2006-12-15 09:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by TimeWastersInc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you realize the hurt you are causing? That's good. For the sake of the child, you should back away. Let them work it out, or not, on their own. If she decides that she's really a lesbian, she can leave him on her own. Don't tempt her. It's possible that she can settle down to a life with him and their child and be happy and fulfilled.
Also, she is someone who will cheat on the #1 person in her life, so you have to wonder if she is being truthful with you. So, she got "accidentally" pregnant by her husband, which means that she's having sex with both of you. Think about that. Do you believe that she will be faithful to you if you're together? Not an indicator of a good future together. Sorry.
2006-12-13 18:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you left would she still be happy with her husband? if so, then take a hike sorry to say :( however, if their relationship is doomed no matter what, then be there for her.....but remember....they way you two feel about each other now is the way she and her husband felt at one point...and look what she's doing to him now. it could be you later on down the road.
2006-12-13 19:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by the WOG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you feel guilty?
It always takes two to tango.
Your girlfriend is obviously more interested in you than in him anyway.
Why would she have to live a lie?
Just let them get divorced.
It is better that way,then he can move on and find himself a straight girl.
Enjoy each other:Rob.xxxx
2006-12-13 17:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt have to make a decision.. she is the one who needs to make a decision and she needs to know thoroughly how this matter is going to affect everyone especially the newborn child
i agree with katherine..im not homophobic or anti-lez.. i just think that with the child now theres alot of consequences that both of you need to think through before she makes the decision
2006-12-13 18:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by acnemycin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU GO AWAY YOU WILL SAVE THREE LIVES ...IF YOU COME CLOSE YOU SOPIL FOUR LIVES...THINK & DECIDE...
2006-12-13 17:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋