It seams like ladys i date these days only looking for 1 of 2 things sex or money and dont get me wrong on ocasion some want both..... not that im against sex but some times just holding a woman feels just as good am I wrong to feel like this?
2006-12-13 15:17:36 · 21 answers · asked by Brian_Tc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WHATTA GUY!
Kudos to you!!
Because of the reputation many men have today for "just wanting one thing" from a woman, many of today's women feel that men need to "pay" to get THEIR goodies...
This may be in the form of material gain, personal pleasures and yes, money. But through it all, most women long for a "knight in shining armor" as you appear to be.
My advice to you is to be more selective about the kind of woman you open your emotions to and then, GO SLOW and BE CONSISTENT with the man you show to her. Even if she is a current "gold digger" or "playa", she will come around - if she truly seeks Love.
And after all, isn't that why we are all here - to care and to share? (smile) Continue to be the romanticist that you are, my friend. You are truly rare and a welcome addition to the human race.
Good luck to you and thanks for posting.
2006-12-13 15:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by GMarieP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found (in my "old " age) that if I am bored I am probably boring, if am not interested I am probably uninteresting and if the world is crazy, well...
So if you find that women are not respondling to you in a romantic way look within young man, look within..
Of course you are not wrong. I think if you continue to treat women the way you would like to be treated, one day you will find a pleasant surprize - one will respond in a positive and delightful way - and hey honey, if they don't, try a woman a little more mature - maybe your just dipping into the shallow end of the gene pool... Come down to my end, the water's quite fine...
2006-12-13 23:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah man your just like me. We are what are called "the good guys". Unfortunatly theres not that many good women out there either. You just have to keep searching till you find the right one. If you seem to keep meeting the same types then you might want to consider different ways of metting women. Ex. meeting women in a bar usually will get you the same type everytime. Good luck.
2006-12-13 23:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, your looking for 1 which means you're
looking in all the wrong places. You don't go looking for romance it happens on the journey.
Romantics are Passionate, Loving ,Caring, Giving, Independent. So that's where they're at.
They're all around you and never where you think.
Romantics, hold each other, walk with each other, love each other. Its not what you're
doing, its the MOMENT IN TIME WHEN TIME STANDS STILL & THERE ARE ONLY 2
PEOPLE IN THE WORLD.......
2006-12-13 23:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by Hiqutipie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you usually find them? Clubs? You want to find a romantic woman..? Try attending an art class or go somewhere that you think a romantic woman would hang out, you'll find one there. And one more thing, get to know them first! I mean, really get to know them!!
2006-12-13 23:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I wish I could find a man that liked a little romance.
2006-12-14 08:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by sapphire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have the same problem .. i'm a hopeless romantic and i love it.. but its hard to find someone that is compatiable with me on that level.. i think the lil things in life means soo much ..
come my way u might like what u find! ha ha
2006-12-13 23:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I wondered what happened to that also. Everything seems evolve around sex or money.........Stop people....just glance up at the stars.....take the time.......it is beautiful........it's free, feels good
2006-12-13 23:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by c_my_blueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Brian!
no, hang on to your values. wait for what you want. I have a niece who is going throughthe same things. she has tried dating services and thinks they are scams. the right one will come along. good luck
2006-12-13 23:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is 2006 not 1970s..why can't my husband be more like you..we live in a world where sex is very important to most..but sex is getting out rated..i mean it's like we "have" to do it in order for someone to be interested in us.
2006-12-13 23:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by becca j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋