This girl I basicly loved wants to one of my freinds.
I'm sucking in school. got a D and 2 A's and the rest C's.
A suppovely really good fighter want to fight me. (I do have expirence in fighting. It was supposed to be a good fight.)but I don't want to fight.
I fighting with my family.
I feel like I losing my best freind. I have ben preoccupied.
Im think Im gonna be a outcast in school if I don't play my cards right.
I alway have a feeling of throwing up.
I just want to know how I should cheer myself up.
2006-12-13 15:04:33 · 20 answers · asked by Crumbs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you feeling like if you back down from this fight you will be an outcast? No? Ohh, good cause you were raised well enough to know that its better to walk away. Soo, it must be all those normal growing up things going on with you. Ohhh its hell. For you And your parents. It will pass you have to roll with it, some days will be worse than others. Keep coming here getting advice. Being good friend will cheer you up. Good luck!!!
2006-12-13 15:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ann_swer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Years from now you will think back about this an laugh. I know you don't believe it now,but it will get better. Sometimes it hurts when you give your all to someone who doesn't give back. The reason you ae not doing so good in school right now is probably because of this. Don't put yourself down by saying you think your going to be a outcast if you don't play your cards right. You are better than that. I can also see that you are very hard on yourself,the reason I know that is because I am the same why. I must always do something right the first time,I use to think I had to be perfect and always in control of myself. You need to give yourself a break and stop being so hard on your self. If you don't want to fight don't do it,it doesn't make you any less a man if you don't. Try to make some new friends,find a hobby you enjoy and find others who like it also. The reason you always have the feeling that you want to throw up is because you have gotten so worked up and tied up in knots on the inside it is making you feel tense. It's your nerves. Get out and find a quite place so you can just sit there and relax,think. You will figure out what to do. Try to talk with your parents or a fmily member that you feel comfortable with. They can help. Nothing is ever so bad that you can't tell a parent,teacher,preacher,anyone. I mean I don't care what it is talk to someone. I think if you could just talk about it and get some ideas of what to do from someone older you would begin to feel better. As you know all of us have been teen agers at one point in our lives..the peer pressure is hard on you. Good Luck,need to talk more,just type us another question
2006-12-14 02:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by K. l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. You're going through this time where everything's just screwed up and you think that nothings going to be the same and it couldn't get any worse, right? Wrong. It could. Don't get too down about it. Move on with your life. Start worrying about school, start studying, start trying harder. Organize yourself. Stay out of fights. You don't have to fight to be the 'bad boy' or whatever it is. Talk to your family if you must. High school or whatever grade your in isn't the end of the world...nor is it the middle. You have a long ways to go and there's so much more out there than looking good every day and keeping up your image. The throwing up thing I understand too. I always feel sick and I'm not sure I can help you there. Maybe go to a doctor? Talk to someone, a trusted teacher, an adult friend, a mentor, someone. Find something that you enjoy doing. Get a hobby that you can do. I found out, quite on accident, that I can draw! (Really badly at first...) But it was something to preoccupy me and it was fun! I started meeting different people than I'd met before. I guess...you just have to put yourself in a situation where you can actually have fun...I suppose...I hope that helped.
2006-12-13 23:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely heading for the old "crash and burn." You ARE pre-occupied with what others will think about you. In the meantime you are MAKING YOURSELF a wreck!
It is hard to let go, but trust me, there will be another and another and another to fill in the void in your life. Give yourself some time to take a breather from "competition" and just learn to like the person you are...
You could consider doing some volunteer work. This always makes your heart feel good and it's a way of changing focus to someone or some cause outside your normal comfort zone. It's also a great step forward to giving of yourself. Because when you find the "right" person that you want to spend the rest of your life with, you'll be halfway there knowing how good it feels to do something for someone else's benefit...
Good luck, and smile!
2006-12-13 23:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia D 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get your priorities right...
You are too young to worry about girlfriends.
You are going to lose your best friend if you don't stop talking about her.
Focus on your studies and work hard at it.
When you get A on everything...everybody will want to be friend with you...including the girls.
Your problem is that you have let one girl disrupting your life and it is now wrecking it.
There is a time for work and a time for play.
You cannot start ignoring your studies because you have a girlfriend which you would like to play with 24 hours a day.
2006-12-13 23:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first go talk to the girl you loved, then after you do that just listen to music and play video games. And if that doesnt work go have a night out with all your close friends, that way for a little while you wont be thinking bout the girl or people wanting to fight you. Hope everything works out.
2006-12-13 23:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in deep! I don't know if you believe in God, but if you do you should start praying! You need to find someone you can trust and sit down to a looooonnnnggggg talk. It is NOT good for you to be carrying around such a heavy lode. Everybody has times when they are down. Try to find some encouraging music. Stay away from country music it will discourage you more. I would suggest a type of Gospel music. I know I'm a woman, but a long hot soak in the tub with a good book usually helps me. I really can't be of anymore help, God is my answer when I'm down, but not many people are willing to try Him. I will pray for you, I hope you days get brighter!!
2006-12-13 23:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by Bekka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find other girl.
Study harder.
Don't fight - it's immature.
Never ever fight with your family.
Wanna cheer yourself up?
You need to change your perception first.
Look at things in a positive way.
Do something that you like, something that can make you feel better.
Keep yourself busy by doing something that is meaningful and important for you.
And don't spend too much time thinking about your problems.
If possible, just write out all the things that you don't like, or just find someone whom you can share your feelings with.
Talk it out, it'll make you feel better.
Always remember that you are not alone.
Always be positive.
'What you view in life will change your view of life.'
2006-12-13 23:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by Kate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be a comedy movie or some sleep.
Sometimes when I am just overwhelmed I take a moment to check out and take a nap. Its one way to get some me time and just forget about things for awhile...
Good luck and find yourself a laugh or two..
*HUGS*
2006-12-13 23:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by Frenchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age, finding out who are is what's most important. Having a girlfriend or relationships that are trying to influence you to be someone you're not can have a negative impact. Take a break from relationship and discover yourself to find out who you are, where you want to go, and who you want to be.
2006-12-13 23:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by Carolyn R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋