I used to hang with this girl until she started feeling on me. Now I talked to her about it and she kept doing it. Then,when I had no more, I didnt want to be friends will her. Now she writes stuff about me on the bathroom stalls and touches my other friends who dont have balls to tell her up. What should I do?
2006-12-13 15:02:58 · 14 answers · asked by miss_lonely911 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont cuss her out, perse`. but tell somebody. its making you uncomfortable, yeah? go to a higher authority, it always makes it THAT much more satisfying when they get in trouble. what is she? a lesbian that doesnt know how to express her emotions, or just plain sick?
2006-12-13 15:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by need 2 get a grip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the girl has some serious issues.
Well, you did the right thing by speaking with her. You told her how you felt about her homosexual directives and for it, you were punished by her bathroom graffiti.
Time for step 2.
I would explain the situation to the school administrators or other such persons and ask their advice. You say she has made this same approach to other friends of yours. Good. That will provide proof of your complaint.
I think the reason why she is writing information about you publicly (and you didn't say WHAT she was writing) is because you seem to have been the only person brave enough to confront her directly about your preferences. Your other friends didn't or won't.
Cussing her would only give her some inane sense of pleasure so, deprive her of that. If you must, simply tell her that you will report her if she continues to do what she has been doing to YOU. Don't be an advocate for your other friends, though. Be responsible for what YOU want out of life.
After all, you REALLY don't know WHAT your other friends secret passions are, do you? (smile)
Good luck to you my friend, and thanks for posting.
2006-12-13 23:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by GMarieP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends see if this girl is frontin u gota be on top of that . feeling on me- just tell her i dont like it and be assertive. If shes wants somethin more tell her step up and get all u frends and tell her to settle it. Do it tommorow if shes scared get some big kids like muscle guy and have them tell her . bout the bathroom stalls just put her name and cross u's out. Be funny and talk smak bout her and make her embarrased. She got mad beef wit u yo. Thats from the heart thats how the be settlin it in the projects
2006-12-13 23:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by zaps_26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't why get down to her level ...... You have done all you could your friends need to deal with this on thier own.... People like that will do what they want no matter what is said or done to them and they will always make you look like the bad one....
Just ignore her and move on.. Mind your own issues and you will see that ignoring this person will work alot better then cussing her because that is what she wants attention....
Good Luck and I hope that this helps you....
2006-12-13 23:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont cuss at her, it will just let her know she is getting to you, just get you and your friends 2gether and go tell someone what she is doing she is harrassing you. She can get in serious trouble if she doesnt stop. Good luck sweetie.
2006-12-13 23:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just warn your friends and ignore her. People that like to make drama are the most offended if you just pretend like they dont exist. It sort of blows the whole thing...
It's probably going to be difficult is she is around a lot.. but driving them crazy with silence is sometimes more fun anyway..
2006-12-13 23:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Frenchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show some class for yourself. Forget about her. No, don't. Start hanging with a better group of people. Grow-up.
2006-12-13 23:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by BERT G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them stand up for themselves. Show a teacher or someone else, what she is writing on the walls.
2006-12-13 23:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your not with it & if she touches you again,,your gonna knock her out.Then hit her hard.Tell that she wrote on the walls,,I bet after she pays restitution she wont ever do that again either.
2006-12-13 23:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it to ur teacher one u trust if she does nothin take it to another if nothin tske it straight to the principal and if u not satisfied tell ur parents they will take care of it n add some creativity to it when u tellin them
2006-12-13 23:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by thebeautifultakiesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋