which one would u choose
ur husband who treats u very nice,who u 've been married to for atleast 4yrs
or someone who u know that loves u the most,wouldnot sleep without thinkin of u,who always sorts ur problems even be4 u notice that u have a problem,a person who crys just for seein u sad,a person who writes poems for u ,this person never told u about the feelings and the love for u coz thinks it's unfair to do that while u r married but u know it that this person loves u sooo much but the this person is a girl and u r bisexual,who would u choose to stay with ur husband and forget about this girl or go with this girl who loves u from all her heart and break up with ur husband nicely...u cant stay with both coz ur husbands doesnot accept that
2006-12-13 14:44:54 · 6 answers · asked by Tara 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I had a similar situation (except the other person was another guy). This other guy went out of his way to do everything for me and would call me all the time and always try to "fix" my problems for me, and he even told me he loves me.
It was a very hard decision for me to make (because my husband and I were going through a hard time for a while) but in the end I chose to stick with my husband because it's him I made a commitment to and because he truly is a great guy.
I don't advise having a one night stand because if you do stay with your husband you'll regret it and feel guilty about it.
I think you need to sit down and truly search withing yourself to see what you want. The answer is there, you just need to listen for it.
BTW, I cut off all ties with the other man to avoid complications. I didn't want to make the situation harder on him or me. He still calls from time to time, but I get off the phone quickly and never call him back.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-16 21:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know this person personally so I can't judge her, but don't you think MAYBE that she is being so nice to get into your pants and then after a few times you fight, she leaves and now what? You left your nice husband of 4 years (who by the way is not easy to find these days-a nice guy) for what? A fling? Come on. I understand maybe you're curious of being with a woman and that's why you're considering this woman. I think you're better off if you sleep with her one time and let it go. Maybe that's bad advice, but we're all imperfect and you know how it is. We don't let something go that easy when we are so curious. So just do it. Then you'll know what it's like and still have your loving husband. Just don't ever let him know about it. Also, you didn't mention if there were any kids involved. You really need to think about them and this decision you need to make. But, I would choose my husband, have a one night stand, but let it go. Stay with hubby.
2006-12-13 15:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband
2006-12-13 14:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Babycakes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to love. You need to decide if you love your husband enough to make it work. You also need to think about whether you want to live your life without a woman. Think seriously before you do anything.
2006-12-13 14:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea, eeww, I support gays but I think being bi is... well, lets just say I would definately go with the four-year husband.
2006-12-13 14:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by kc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
neither...........
start from scatch..hit the streets...
2006-12-13 15:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋