After taking the test in the library(because he's been uh sexually eyeing me all week last week and I asked the dean if I can defend myself against a teacher physically if one ever comes on to me without being suspended. They said yes so I felt more comfortable).
Anyway after the test was done I had a chat with my instructor about how I did the probs on the test and we talked generally and casually about classes and all about how he thinks I'm a space cadet having those blonde moments lol. Yeah he called me a space cadet! So we talked some more and finally I said well have a good Christmas and he said you too!
As soon as I stepped out of his office he LAUGHED at me! I turned around and there he was beaming at me. I walked in and asked why he was laughing. He just shook his head with a smile. I smiled and said yeah I can be a space cadet sometimes haha! He said yeah and kept smiling at me and that was it.
What does this mean? Why did he laugh?
2006-12-13 14:31:03 · 5 answers · asked by Snorty 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
he's 60-70 years old and married.
No I don't have that many blonde moments!
2006-12-13 14:32:19 · update #1
probably just thinking and didn't mean anything by it
2006-12-13 14:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably laughing at the fact that you really are a space cadet.
2006-12-13 14:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by badbill1941 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably still thinking about the 'space cadet' moment.
2006-12-13 14:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is harrassment when you ask them to stop and they do not. You have to verbally talk to him and give him the chance to know how you feel. Because to him he may feel like that comment was no big deal. Even though your feelings were hurt, he didn't cross the line. If you were to report it I doubt they would even take the time to say anything. They would however get very upset if you went to the Dean or whoever and said that you talked to the teacher and asked him to stop and he didn't.
What you should have done is told your teacher that his behavior is inappropriate, that it makes you uncomfortable, and that you want him to stop. Then say if he doesn't feel like he can stop then say we should go talk to your boss.
2006-12-13 14:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
too much thinking about what he's thinking is what i think. This is a place were all should be thinking about what is being taught.........What do you think?
2006-12-13 18:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋