I have been with the same guy for 2 years now. I can make myself orgasm very easily, but he has not yet made me orgasm. What can we do? Any advice?
2006-12-13 14:21:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Hi sweety.
My experience was that once I learned what I needed, I was trying to figure out how to relate this to someone else. I mean when you are rubbing your **** and it gets too intense you let up, but someone else doesn't know when to let up. They don't know when to rub more to the left etc. So, you have to tell the guy to really watch your face and nipples etc to see when what he is doing is working. Tell him you might guide him with your hand at times when you know what you want and need.
There were so many times before I learned this that I was soooo close but they would change their rythm and I lost it. So, the important thing to remember is... your body will tell you what it needs and when and you have to get it what it needs when it needs it. So if your body wants your **** pinched and he isn't doing it.. do it. If your **** need to arch up and push into his hand do it. Kinda like thinking with the little head for a guy. LOL
2006-12-16 01:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are able to achieve orgasm on your own, then you are already half way there, so all you have to do is do the things to yourself while you are making love to climax. Very few women are able to achieve and orgasm through normal missionary sex (man on top), so maybe a different position, like spooning or from behind so that he or you can stimulate your clitoris while you are making love.
2006-12-13 15:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-17 06:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by Peter IPPC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here's what you can try. Extend foreplay, then have him go down on you, until your about ready to orgasm, then get him on his back with you on top. Place a hand in position, (his or yours) so that when you thrust forward it is stimulating your ****.
If this still doesn't help, try anal. It always works for me.
2006-12-16 08:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women have to rub the outside while the man is inside. try doing it the way dogs do, or be on top at a 90 degree angle and just rock back and forth (upside down T). both of those ways increase outside stimulation, and can help you get off
2006-12-13 14:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only way for me to get off is if he goes down on me. i can't achieve orgasm with penetration, most women can't. Try going doggy style and pleasuring yourself at the same time, that way you still get it during sex. how does he feel about bringing toys into the relationship? try to make him understand that most women can't get off by just sex, that it's not him, even if it is lol.
2006-12-13 14:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by kameka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not make youself orgasm while he's with you, or tell him how you do it and ask him to while the action is hot!
2006-12-13 14:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by iceyone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him! discussion between lovers can really increase your sex life. You might find that there is something that he wants to change as well. IF he gets mad, he is probably not the correct guy.
2006-12-13 15:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LMAO....ohhhh hunny....it's a man's world no?
don't feel bad. it's not uncommon. Try focusing on the g spot, using toys and putting yourself into a meditative state.
2006-12-13 14:24:09 · answer #10 · answered by dahlia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋