he is married with 3 kids. Will I be happy if I marry him? What should I do?
2006-12-13 14:19:45 · 25 answers · asked by aaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave him alone. If he;s cheating on his wife with you, do you think he's going to be faithful with you?
2006-12-13 14:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am telling you from a young women's view from what my family went through, My father was married to my mother and still is been married for about 38 years and this woman that he had been having an affair with for about 6 years she knew that he was married and had children and she didn't care and I haven't talked with my father in over 5 years since the separation of my parents and I have no intention on doing so and as for as for her I hate her and would love for something bad to happen to her because she should have stayed away until my parents had separated or divorced but needless to say he lost everything and he still calls my mom and tries to be with her but she doesn't want him and he has avoided the whole divorce thing and is using the fact that we are catholic so she won't file for a divorce and if you want to know what to do stay away till he is legally separated or divorce before making any plans because his kids will blame you for everything just the way I blame him and her too!!!
2006-12-13 15:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should get a life and realize this man would never leave his kids and break up a family for you no matter what he says. 3% of relationships that begin as affairs last. An affair is just a relationship based on lies and temporary, false feelings. You can't get involved with a married man. You are hurting innocent children and who knows what is really going on with him and his wife, he could be lying to you, which he probably is. Move on and let this family deal with their problems as a family. It is no one Else's business, especially the "other" women. Your not bad, you just made a bad decision now fix it by backing off.
2006-12-13 14:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by Maizy * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are falling in love with a bunch of problems, OK?
How could you love him??????
Can't you find someone unattached? You're going to be a homewrecker if you continue with this!
Go to a singles gathering or go to places where others share the same hobbies as you!
Forget the married man! it wouldn't go anywhere!!!!!!
2006-12-13 14:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant marry him, that's called bigamy. It's the way you said it, you see. You said "someone's husband" -- that's the way that you see him, and more importantly that's the way he sees himself. Otherwise you would have written "a married man" or something like that. I know it will break your heart a little, but leave it alone or you in for years of pain. You deserve better -- and so does he and she (his wife).
2006-12-13 14:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Clear thinker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you.
Please don't be so naive as to think the only reason he's cheating on his wife is because you're just that special. Nothing against you, but that's never the case. He's cheating on his wife because he's a cheater. Plain and simple. He'll do the same to you. Run while you can!
2006-12-13 15:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kelli P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he married with 3 kids then there is no point in goin ahead with him
it wont work for at least one from you three
2006-12-13 14:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by YahooAnswersProfile 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY FROM A MARRIED MAN!!!!!!! for the sake of those 3 children!!!
2006-12-13 14:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by canada4me 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he leaves her to be with you how do you know he wouldn't leave you for some one else? I wouldn't date a married person it just seems wrong to me.
2006-12-13 14:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will probably get hurt.. but don't listen to me or anyone else.. Life is short . Just enjoy it and go after your guts...
Good Luck... I truly know how you feel.but remember ! Never excpect anything from him! He might be lying to you
2006-12-13 14:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋