I've been with this guy for 3 1/2 years have been unhappy for all of those years I don't love him anymore, we have a 2 yr old together and I just don't know how to end it with him.
2006-12-13 14:02:08 · 22 answers · asked by blinky_182_gurl2001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
pack yours and your childs stuff together and then tell him that you are leaving him and there is nothing he can do about it
2006-12-13 14:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lara M 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
If you're unhappy you should end it. Although it is better for a child to have two parents under the same roof, it is far better to have two HAPPY parents under separate roofs.
It will be hard, but you need to start at the beginning. Make sure it is the right decision and stick to it. Tell him the truth. Don't push him too far away though as your child will still need the both of you, and he'll never be completely out of your life.
Good luck. You are making the right decision if you are not and have never been happy. Not much of a life without happiness.
2006-12-13 22:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that this is a hard one for a teen to answer but my mom is like this and i told my mom if u were unhappy with him why did u get pregnant with him 3 times well anyway u should have not have a baby with him so the easiest way to break up with him is to say it is over when your child is asleep that's what i would do so my baby would not be in this fight
2006-12-13 22:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by loco/island girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you want to break up with him but first think about your child and if you want to then do it very gently.
Tell your x husband to not move out of the country or city so then your child can still see him.
2006-12-13 22:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should have to stay with someone you don't love, even if you have a child together.Just tell him straight up, that you don't love him like you use to and you think its better if you both go your seperate ways( he might feel the same way too)
2006-12-13 22:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_love_vi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest and tell him you just don't feel the same anymore and you want to move on in life.Explain that you aren't trying to hurt him,you just don't think it is fair to either one of you to remain together if you truly aren't in love or committed to the relationship.
2006-12-13 22:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by spicy1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what type of man he is. If he is abusive, then, you just pack up you and your child and leave without saying anything to him. But if he's normal, you have to sit down and talk with him.
2006-12-13 22:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear if he's the father of your 2 year old , you are still tied to him, unless you move , but risk having him sue you for custody...
2006-12-13 22:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is an old song called "Hit the Road Jack" play it for him and have his bags packed.
2006-12-13 22:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I was in the same situation...I had to pack up and leave...with help of my friend...I moved 25miles away
2006-12-13 22:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by canada4me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grab all your stuff and bring it over to my house!! Unless your crazy then take your stuff to your mom's....
2006-12-13 22:09:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋