I need more friends ,the friends I did have moved or don't like me anymore.What do I do?
2006-12-13 13:54:42 · 27 answers · asked by sillygirl227 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You seem like a sweet person. Don't put yourself down like that. I'm sure you'll make more friends in the near future. In the meanwhile, cheer up! It'll get better :)
2006-12-13 13:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by sansa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you graduate from High School, the friends a person has tends to decrease in number each year. Until finally, you only have one or two "real friends" and many acquaintances. I probably have only one or two friends. I know lots of people, but they are married or divorced or left town. They have changed to a point where I no longer really know them anymore. They found other friends that impacted their personality and interest in life. So, we are different. What you are going through is natural. Try to stay connected with your family or just accept the idea that most people you know will only be temporary friends. Best wishes.
2006-12-13 22:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by rasckal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't read the classic, "How to win friends and Influence People" Start there. Most people like me, just weren't born with Charisma. Therefore, we have to "learn" good people skills. Good communication skills. Which this book will help you with.
Truth is though, you can have a lot of people in your life, but when it comes to true "Friends" most people only have 2-3 really, really good friends that are worth keeping.
2006-12-13 22:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends r hard to find and even harder to keep.It sounds strange but you have to learn to like yourself first,really take a giant look at you. If you r happy all is good if not oops,change.People are the same everywhere,they all want something from a friend,maybe just friendship,or money,whatever you decide.Its ok to walk alone for a while,it will make you stronger. GOODLUCK
2006-12-13 22:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try MySpace.com it's a great place to meet new friends and who know's you may end up meeting more than you had before, just be yourself, be honest and have fun. Sorry you lost your friends by moving, but sadly that's part of life, just don't fret about it and get back out there. Good Luck to you.
2006-12-13 21:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up sport or gym. It's a way of getting to meet people, it gives you confidence, and makes you look attractive (by which I mean more the way that people confident of their physical form carry themselves). It also keeps you healthy and it's a good to have a hobby anyway.
2006-12-13 21:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on what YOU enjoy. Go to the places that have what you enjoy. You'd be surprised how soon you are seeing the same people over and over. You start talking, get them drunk, record them confessing something horrible, and you blackmail them into being your friend.
2006-12-13 22:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by hudson_floridamale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try helping out pepole, do something special for someone, or try talking to someone nice. evantually ask that person if u could have a get together for something fun to do. or even have a big party or a big sleep over and people will start to notice you and want to be your friend. remmber to be nice, poilte, and try to listen when people talk to u. thats one big thing i look in for, for a good friend. looking good helps 2 :o)
2006-12-13 21:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by pinkpanther014 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be more approachable, and having a positive attitude helps big time. Have a ready smile and try to ask yourself why they don't like you.
2006-12-13 21:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by Halcyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends always come and go. True friendship is so rare now.
You need quality not quantity.
2006-12-13 21:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋