Last time we were having sex it took me long enough to drop coz i never reached the point, my girlfriend was mad at me and i was mad at myself. does that happen to everybody??? changing positions didnt make it better i never did spill off in almost an hour intercourse. what should i do?
2006-12-13 13:51:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Hey it happens. And when I'm done... and it has been a reasonable time for my partner to be done.. .then enough is really enough. Probably how she feels. So no biggy, just get up and do something else. Come back later and finish er off.
2006-12-13 18:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if it is normal or not for this to happen, but it is a problem that is common and well known, and it should not be anything to worry about.
First of all, you have to ask yourself how you feel about the sex you've been having. A lot of people are too polite to suggest it, but just MAYBE your girlfriend is not attractive enough. That's not the only reason why it could happen, but it's something you can figure out on your own before seeking outside help.
That leads to the next question. Was the sex enjoyable or satisfying? Satisfaction is a personal thing, and you may not need to ejaculate in order to have a good time. You and your girlfriend should enjoy each other's company as much as possible not matter what.
Another factor can be biology I don't know how you would easily figure this out, but your body might be playing some sort of a trick on you. It might even be temporary. If you need something to help boost your performance, or if this is a long term issue, just go talk to a doctor about it. They know a lot more than we do.
Whatever you do, don't freak out. Don't let your own or you girlfriend's expectations make you feel guilty or frustrated; just sort things out logically and you'll be on the right track in no time.
2006-12-13 22:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by يا حسين 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta stop spankin' your monkey ... it's getting used to needing a particular kind of stimulation ... you know, like what it gets from your other girl friend, Palmala (Get it? Palm - the five sisters of Mercy ... your HANDS). You're not using Maintain or rubbing cocaine on yourself are you? See your doctor. You don't mention your age, but you may have benign prostate enlargement which slows everything down. Been there ... done that!
2006-12-13 21:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can say its nothing to be ashamed of thats for one... during the hour if you all switch it up, like move to the shower, or use lubes it should be ok... the only problem i could see is if she was trying to orally pleasure you- an hour is WAY to long to do it...
She should be happy... since most cant last five minutes...
I think you are perfectly normal, but if anything starts to hurt- see your doctor...
2006-12-13 21:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One of my formers actually had this issue himself. We finally came to the conclusion that he was trying too hard. You can't think about the big finale otherwise it will be that much harder to achieve, just be in the moment and it might surprise you as to how fast you reach your goal.
2006-12-13 21:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, Ive never heard anyone angry about sex lasting to long. Be thankful?
2006-12-13 21:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by J. R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should feel lucky and so should your girlfriend. Most girls are begging for their man to last that long.
2006-12-13 21:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by pittycolors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i get mine too eaily hahaha i wish i could go on for 30 mins
2006-12-13 21:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by nathan R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was mad? most women would want that i would think, most of them have the opposite problem
2006-12-13 21:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by Yee Haw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try harder. Dont think just do it. Give it all u got then she may be surprised.
2006-12-13 21:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by White Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋