My wife thinks that there is something wrong with me for not watching porn.Me personally i watched porn when i was younger but most of the time i was too busy going after the real thing.Yes i will admit i was a womanizer for a large part of my life so it safe to say i have had it all.I dont see me not watching porn as a problem but she does!wont stop nagging about it! She even went out and bought me some videos which remain unopened!I wish she would lay off!I am not like her trailer park (literally) ex's!
2006-12-13 13:42:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would like to add that i love my wife very much and am loyal to her completley but i feel as though she wants to turn me into the type of men she was with before me .What can i do to shut her up!
2006-12-13 13:47:29 · update #1
I take car of buisness just fine thankyou and she is the one with less experience so i am the usually showing her the new tricks lol!
2006-12-13 13:52:28 · update #2
She probably thinks something is wrong because she has dated a number of guys who have all watched porn. She should be happy you don't pollute your mind with that crap!
2006-12-13 13:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by His Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude this is every mans dream come true. The wife wants to watch and she has bought it for you as well. I can't even bring the topic up without upsetting my wife. If you do watch the porn it doesn't mean you love her any less, maybe she wants to try new things which you say she isn't all that experienced in. And dude you commented on her past, what happened in the past stays in the past. My advice watch the porn because if you don't and you change your mind later you got no hope of getting them back in.
2006-12-13 15:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by jtgot1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably so used to men doing that, that she thinks it's totally weird that you don't. If you love her as much as you say, then what is the problem with sitting down and watching a porn with her? What you can do is make fun of everything that is going on and she will see that you are not really that into it.
2006-12-13 14:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say be happy you have a wife that will let you watch porn at all. My wife hates the stuff I can't even watch soft porn on cinemax without getting in trouble.
2006-12-13 13:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first i gotta say i take exception to ur flagrant so-called description of her former men when u called them (literally) trailer park. and no, i don"t live in a trailer, but i don't believe one should be judged based on their living preferences or capabilities.
so now that i got that off my nips lol.... i happen to love porn as well and my husband was the one who encouraged me many yrs ago to partake. now he will not watch a single porn with me. but hey that doesn't stop me from enjoying.
everyone has preferences and many times they change as we grow within the relationship. i would kindly explain to her its just not what ur into but she may feel free to partake should She desire. ya never know....u may end up getting involved if u see her masturbating to one.
good luck ! :)
2006-12-13 14:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by lanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her why she wants you to watch it? I don't mind my boyfriend watching it, but I certainly wouldn't push it on him! That's just weird. My only advice is to ask her why she's so worried about it. Maybe she wants to watch it with you, or maybe she thinks thats just how guys are. Let her know that there are plenty of men who just don't get off on it, they'd rather have the real thing. My heart goes out to you, I can't imagine a weirder fight!
2006-12-13 14:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by kameka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just trying to spice up your love life or she might like watching them.
2006-12-13 13:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by c_my_blueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she likes to watch porn and wants to watch it with you did you ever think of that
2006-12-13 13:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lara M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just watch the porn
2006-12-13 13:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by deans_mom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you married the wrong woman.
2006-12-13 13:47:33 · answer #10 · answered by Brian F 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋