2006-12-13 13:37:29 · 6 answers · asked by vampirekity13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't worry about it and concentrate instead on learning to spell girl, school and the proper pluralization of "people"...which by the way, is "people".
2006-12-13 13:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by Chanteuse_ar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I would do is speak with the girl and ask her WHY she is saying negative things about you.
If she was NOT cooperative or open with you, I would not associate with her or be seen around her.
If she WAS cooperative or open with you, I would accompany her to the sources who are making a bad reputation for you and confront them directly - TOGETHER.
Let me just tell you this: No matter WHAT you do, there will ALWAYS be people who approve or disapprove of your actions, beliefs and opinions. The best thing to do is what YOU believe in; what YOU feel comfortable with, and let those whose ideals are similar to yours be in your circle of friends.
Trying to make everyone your friend makes NO ONE your friend.
If there is truth in what the girl is saying about you; that is, you ARE "using" her in some way, then STOP the way you are behaving with her IMMEDIATELY and ask her just WHAT you are doing to make her feel the way she does.
And then - adjust your attitude and/or behavior.
People do things for many reasons. Could be she is envious of you and wants to be the center of attention. Or, it could be that she truly feels you are taking advantage of her in some fashion.
Either way, there is discord between you that MUST be addressed with her in order for it to stop.
I do wish you well, my friend, with your dilemma and hope that everything works out favorably for you in the end.
Good luck and thanks for posting.
2006-12-13 22:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by GMarieP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl? Skewly? Peoples?
They probably don't trust you!
2006-12-14 04:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth. If they still don't believe you then that's their loss. If you can prove to people that you don't use them , sooner or l8r people will realize that she's lying. If they still don't believe you, then just give them time. Remember, karma works. If she's saying bad stuff about you, just imagine what will be said about her.
2006-12-13 21:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are, STOP IT NOW!
If not, then tell people you're not. Ask her WHY she thinks you're using her. If the reasons are valid, then agian stop using her. If they're not, then she seems like an attention seeker.
2006-12-13 21:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by swelwynemma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop using them
2006-12-13 21:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋