Well I just moved and got myself my own bully. He (borrows) my books and pushes me every day after school. I can't just tell the teacher! I would be a wimp and if he knew, than I'd be in BIG trouble. Please help me, I need some advice!
2006-12-13 13:17:05 · 24 answers · asked by Jeany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you can't tell the teacher. But you can't back down. In school's, bullying isn't tolerated. So, you have to figure out your bullies weakness'. He's already figured yours out. Just play him in his own game! When he "borrows" your books, tell him off and don't be afraid to say "NO!"... I mean, what's he going to do? ... hit you! Then you press charges. And more than likely he'd be suspended.
2006-12-13 13:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have an older brother? If so, talk to him and I am sure he will take care of it. Or try self defense... when he pushes you or lays a hand on you knock him one. You will end up in the office and the situation will be out of the bag, but it should end. A guy has no right to be physically violent towards a girl. If you allow it to continue he may end up seriously hurting you. Don't just ignore the problem because it won't just go away.
2006-12-13 13:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't state your age, so it is kind of hard to say. I would start hooking up with some other people quick and let them help you out. This person obviously has targeted you to make themselves look bigger...which of course we know only makes him a jerk. People like this are insecure about themselves and like to pick on people to make themselves feel better. You might want to say something about harassment laws now days. Let him understand that if you take this to the authorities that he may get into more trouble than it is worth pushing you around. Stand up for yourself.
2006-12-13 13:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let him know NOW that you are not going to stand for his kind of behavior before it becomes a perminate routein. Don't let him borrow your books and don't let him push you around!
The worst that could happend is that he continues or says some mean things that don't mean anything.
2006-12-13 13:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by samee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is when you stand your ground to the bully. Tell him to leave you alone point blank, if he keeps doing it just tell someone its the only way of not getting into trouble.
2006-12-13 13:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might actually like you. Sometimes boys have a weird way of showing affection. Talk to him. Ask him why he chooses to be this way. Ask him if he would like to be friends. Tell him that he will value you more as a friend than as a victim of his bullying.
2006-12-13 13:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well go to a guidance counselor and/or just tell him to stop or you will be forced to take action but sometimes that dont work you can probably just act nice or ignore him sometimes if a bully realizes it doesn't affect you he will stop and that works almost all the time
2006-12-13 13:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by bert 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bully's struggle with their own fears and try to hide thier weaknesses and discover the ones in others. don't let your fear show, stand tall and don't back down....... find some friends and form a group. groups intimidate them. if things do get bad tell the principal. a bully shouldn't affect your everyday life. maybe you could find his weakness and break him with it. ha ha ha!!!! REVENGE!!! i love it!!
2006-12-13 13:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you tell the teacher?? Bullying is not allowed.
2006-12-13 13:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he does it. Why he has to pick on you. Tell him to stop. If he keeps doing it, then you'll just have to tell the teacher or somebody. If he just does it playfully then he probably likes you! ;)
2006-12-13 13:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋