I want to have a baby, but my husband is not ready. He wants to wait two more years. What can I do to occupy my life until we are ready to have a baby? I am 30. Please, no fling/swing/cheat answers.
2006-12-13 13:16:43 · 7 answers · asked by Cheyne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Start a new hobby, take a class or two at the local college, volunteer your time at a library, old folk's home, animal shelter, homeless shelter, etc. You'll meet new friends, learn new skills and feel good about helping others. Good luck!
2006-12-13 13:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by sueflower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's going to be goin' on in two years that's going to be better than it is now? Are you financially unstable? Isn't your relationship solid? There's no 'right time' for kids, but the older a woman is for her first baby, the greater the possibility of Downs syndrome. Chances increase dramatically after 35, that's why most pregnant women have an amniocentesis test done during their pregnancy. If you husband wants children at all, there's no time like the present! Besides, think of the fun!
2006-12-13 21:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Volunteer at a childrens hospital or a daycare center. Help a neighbor or coworker out by babysitting. Now for the spice. Every guy has a favorite part on a woman they like. Is he a leg man,breast man,buttman,hair (a lot of guys are into hair) Change the color or even buy a wig long blonde,brunette,redhair? Whatever part turns him on start flaunting it in his face. After showering put on lotion in front of him like you see the women do on TV commercials for moisturisers as that can be a real turn on to a guy!!!!
2006-12-13 21:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think if you are communicating about it that you would settle on a time, is two years better for you all finacially??
kids cost a boat load, believe me,, I had 5,, braces, school books etc,,,,
having a baby definately wont spice up your life, right now you can come and go and take vacations etc.. once kid comes,, strapped down like a dog to the dog house,,
2006-12-13 21:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job. Visit the elderly at a nursing home,go to work at a daycare and see if you still think you want kids this time period in your life
Go back to school and get a degree in childcare work or elementary education and be a teacher
2006-12-13 23:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by K. l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for some community causes to volunteer for.
2006-12-13 21:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a B.J.
2006-12-13 21:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋