2006-12-13 12:55:35 · 14 answers · asked by Refugio O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My opinion is that most of the divorces are caused by immature people getting married and not understanding how much work it really is.
Most people now days seem to be so self-centered that they cannot give support to a spouse. We live in a "throw away" society that does not appreciate that the most wonderful things take effort to tend them so they grow more beautiful with time.
2006-12-13 13:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is people not working out their problems.
Yes cheating is an instant tie breaker for most relationships and that is a huge reason why people divorce these days. In the past it was so "wrong" to divorce that you would let your spouce (mostly men 20 years ago) have their women on the side and the wife would say and do nothing. Also since domestic violence has been put out there for women to know that it is wrong if a man ever hits you, since divorce is accepted more these days, it allows for a woman to leave her husband with out being marked a harlot (even though it was only because she was being beat)
With instant satisfaction being the "norm" in this day and age, people have no problem ending and starting a relationship with out thinking about the real long term reason of a marriage.
2006-12-13 21:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you say unsatisfied women. There are two people in a marriage and it takes two people to make it work. Today women want a lot more from marriage with working at a career and having children. Both parties have to do so much more for each other to make the marriage work and unfortunately that is not happening.
2006-12-13 21:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you assume that it is because of unsatisfied women? Women are not the only ones who file divorces. Marriages end usually because one or both are not ready for commitment. There are some marriages that end because they can't see eye to eye.
2006-12-13 21:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most arguments in marriage stem from money. People don't communicate anymore, and they don't realize that living with a person takes work. People also get married way too soon and don't realize that they barely know the person they're promising to spend the rest of their life with. I hear all the time "we got married and then I found out...." it's ridiculous!
2006-12-13 21:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by kameka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cause of it is man or woman who have never grown up, thinking they are running away from their problems by jumping into a new relationship, most people who cheat always regret what they have done, and wish they could turn back the clock.
2006-12-13 21:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of it is cheating on each other or not really trying ot tough out the marriage. It is too easy to just throw it all away and start over
2006-12-13 23:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by K. l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the cause of 90 percent of divorce THEY WOKE UP and Smelled the coffee..Hey Love ain't all it's cracked up to be and if your not a person who wants to share your life whole-heartly with sompone DON'T GET MARRIED,..
2006-12-13 21:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One partner regardless of gender decides they are no longer comfortable with the vows they promised to uphold on thier wedding day and so.. whoever divorced is the person who is not willing to uphold thier marital promise.
2006-12-13 21:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not just women but men also. most divorces are the result of broken trust, cheating. most things can be negotiated, and woked out, but not that. that is the worst, and once done it can't be undone. can never make the one who was betrayed believe she was ever loved, or can again be loved.
2006-12-13 21:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋