its really big...I am not...feeling kinda intimidated here... should i worry??? does she really want a huge guy???
2006-12-13 12:52:57 · 29 answers · asked by kneelandbob69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its a substitute for when you're not around....they don't make them small.....don't worry.
2006-12-13 12:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by D S 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For all you know, it's a gag gift! Why not talk to her about this?! Don't feel intimidated! Girls do realize that they make those things incredibly massive, so I wouldn't worry too much. The most important thing is communication, expecially in the sex area. No reason to worry at all! :) Remember, if you have a magazine full of big breasted women and 6 pack ab women, if your girlfriend wasn't quite there, would you love her any less. It's what you do with the real thing that counts. No cheap imitation could live up to that! :) Take Care and Good Luck
2006-12-13 12:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by silverstreak1717 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you use the toys together - it can be a real turn on for the man and woman. My husband uses my toys on me and he loves it. I wouldn't be intimidated - I also use larger ones than my husband - it is just because it is something new and a brand new feeling which is exciting. If she goes out looking for a bigger guy then start to worry LOL
Maybe go toy shopping together and see if there are things that she would like to try with you......
But don't worry and be happy that your gf is obvously very comfortable enough to use toys! And have fun!
Merry Christmas!
2006-12-13 12:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look, if she wanted big she would be getting big, not a plastic toy. Be glad she can take care of herself if you are not around to take care of her -- if anything this means she really likes you. A good rule of thumb is that if a girl has toys and they satisfy her, she is a really cool open minded -- but loyal -- kind of girl.
My advice is to show her you are cool about it, and not let on that you are threatened. Let it go. She will find your self-confidence very attractive. Now, if you go on and on about how you are threatened by a piece of plastic, she might leave you for being insecure. It's just a piece of plastic, don't stress it. I'm sure if she was onto your every fantasy she would be threatened even more than you are by that mere thing.
Good luck!
2006-12-13 13:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by SqRLiO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't lose sleep over the fact that you found a secret of hers. this should tell you two things. She has a healthy sex drive and She still has fantasies. But she is taking care of business in her own way, at home and not somewhere else. Try to keep an open mind approach the subject only when the time is right. Enjoy her and her choice of toy Shes not taking her desires elsewhere. sounds like she prefers keeping it at home. When in doubt ask her carefully and respectfully. she will love you for it.
2006-12-13 14:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by junemperson_villebrun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she has toy doesn't mean she thinks any less of you--it's her choice---ask her if she wants to play with it with you!!
2006-12-13 13:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. my wife does the same thing. no toy will ever replace a real man. you should ask if you can use it on her. get her in the mood and use it for fore play. you will find your intimate time lastng much longer and shell be even more crazier over you in the future. do not make fun, do not be insecure about it. if she just wants to use it privately, respect that. also, remember, BE SURE TO HAVE A GOOD REASON TO HAVE FOUND IT. no one likes a snooper. you could always go shopping with her for one as well! that is a lot of fun. try it, you might like it.
2006-12-13 12:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by andrew646 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Is she using it? I have one that I got as a gag gift and it is tucked somewhere in a drawer, the dam thing is huge and i can't use it, but probaby would if i could. Just come out and ask her, sex toys can spice up the bedroom scene
2006-12-13 12:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry, that's her back massager. The one she uses for that other area is just that dinky, little 20 inch model.
2006-12-13 12:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can help her with it. Or you can use it in one place and you in another. if you know what i mean. Or you can ask her about it. Maybe she does like bigger but i don't think it matters that much it does how you use it. Try to get some more force and stuff going on. Or get a cock ring or there is stuff to inhance your stuff.
2006-12-13 12:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's not about that,it's just a toy,we all have them and if she's with you ,you must be satisfying her
2006-12-13 12:54:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋