Give me examples of ways to change things up a little! Thanks
2006-12-13 12:44:08 · 15 answers · asked by sweetie34 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well try watching erotic films together, go to an adult store together to pick them out as well as some sexual toys and lotions etc. Roleplaying is always fun too. I would suggest being open to try anything - you will never know if you don't lke something if you don't at least try it! Also stock up on some sexy lingerie and be the aggressive one during sex - men LOVE that!
I have been with my husband for 13 years, married for 8 of them, and know exactly what you are talking about. We tried what I mentioned above and wow - our sex life has never been better. You need to experiment so you both don't get bored so good luck and hope my suggestions help you! Merry Christmas! :)
2006-12-13 12:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U have 2 always start off with good 4play that's a must.Depending on how u want to step it up.
If u have a headboard with a mirror and a light u can put a color light of your choice and look at yourselves having oral sex or just regular. If u like to were thongs try dancing in your lingerie 4 him R Kelly has very good songs 4 that.Or u can buy a very soft penis and let him were that butt out make sure he spanking u while hes doing it if u know what i mean the feeling is tremendous it will have that cat running like a faucet.Or try doing it in the shower with very warm water.
2006-12-13 12:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by klo jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
imagine outdoors the mattress room. next time you're taking a bath, positioned on purely the towel around the abode for a lengthy time period. See how lengthy it takes before he pulls it off. My spouse wears only a Tshirt that contains mid butt. (drives me loopy) practice dinner breakfast in only panties on an afternoon that he is going to artwork (or golf, fishing, and so on). he will imagine about that each and each and every faster or later. On an afternoon at the same time as he's abode, do an same, then sit down on his lap and feed him his breakfast. Snuggle up on the settee at the same time as he's gazing television, then initiate unbuttoning something on you or on him. Have a unadorned video nighttime the position you both sit down bare on the settee, popcorn and beverages, and watch something you want (doesn't must be porn). Have bare breakfast on Saturday mornings. remember vehicle sex. Scout out an section once you're on my own, then one nighttime once you're utilizing abode, say, "turn the following." and training guide him to the spot.. Pull out some battery powered candles for the dashboard. We had a e book noted as "100 and one sexual positions" and a jar with products of paper numbered a million to 100 and one. we would %. a range and attempt that position. Have sex in each and every room, on, lower than, or beside each and every little bit of furnishings. attempt sex on the steps. once you've achieved a number of those, project him to go back up with something. yet maximum of all have relaxing!!!!
2016-11-26 01:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Role Playing
Sex Toys
New Positions (buy kama sutra)
having sex not just in the bedroom!!
2006-12-13 12:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by T <3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im all about positions and places. theres nothing like a lil adventure. thrill sex to heat things up...like a couple days ago me and my lover were playing frisbe golf in these woods and well u can guess what happen when we got bored with that...haha. it was fun. and positions any thing that makes it a lil crazy. also i sexy lil outfits and roleplaying talking durty works very well also. gud luck and have fun!
2006-12-13 12:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by sara ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would need to know what you already do, but just in case you haven't, try initiating things when he does not expect you to, like in the kitchen, or while he is in the shower.
2006-12-13 12:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by pay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well ask ur self or ur partner, let ur mind give u ideas. Or porn always helps out. Good luck. Have fun.
2006-12-13 12:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A new sexy outfit would work...how 'bout stilletos? You could try to strip for your man. Also, you could do something like serve him his favorite meal in something really sexy....or when initiating action, really be agressive...tell him what you want. Talk dirty to him or have him pick out something sexy for you to wear to bed...(or wear nothing to bed at all).
2006-12-13 12:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Read erotic stories out loud to each other...check out www.literotica.com. Good luck!
2006-12-13 12:51:31 · answer #9 · answered by akasha2578 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what you mean but toys and flavored oils are a good start. Always ask or better yet- tell what you want him to do to you!
2006-12-13 12:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋