like i said she cheated on me twice that i know bout an she recently got up with me an said she was sorry for what she has done an wanted us to talk on daily basis but i kind of snapped on her an told her to hit the road but now i dont know if i did the right thing, plus she wasnt really affecionate wit me sexually for some years so im jus stuck an dont know what to do
2006-12-13 12:15:40 · 17 answers · asked by big red 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Move on.
2006-12-13 12:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just let her go, it's whats best for you.. i guess i just dont' understand why she never realized that you are a good guy and is just now apolgizing for something she should have realized along time ago was wrong.. and once a cheater always a cheater.. i think maybe shes lonely and needs a father figure for her kid.. i dont' know.. i wouldn't take her back, if she wants to be friends with you then thats fine, but dont' be goin' out of your way to help her with things.. she did you wrong and she needs to make it up to you.. and if you ever get a lady and she isn't happy for you, then she needs to get out of your life... good luck and best wishes! find a girl that will treat you good from day one cause the ones that don't theres a reason bigger then i can explain that things didn't work out, cause it just wasn't meant to be!
2006-12-13 20:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so she slept with some other guy and cheated on you twice and you want to forgive her? i feel bad for you. you really are caught up in this girl and she is playing you. she had a baby with another guy. how responsible is that? no offense, but you should move on. you said she wasn't really affectionate sexually with you, but she can have a BABY with another guy. she isn't good enough for you. you deserve better. don't do that to yourself.
2006-12-13 20:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be a fool to stay with her. You did the right thing tell her to hit the road and get on with your life. You will meet somebody better that appreciates you
2006-12-13 20:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by Alan R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your instincts kicked in at just the right moment there my friend.
Go with it, I think you did the right thing, so move on & find someone who's a lot more worthy of your trust & affection.
2006-12-13 20:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO cause u dont want to do with a baby that isnt yours so dont wrry bout and move on
2006-12-13 20:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by mikysmith1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what to do.
She is just stringing you along until the next guy comes around her way. You don't deserve that. Find someone that will care for you as much as you care for them.
2006-12-13 20:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a cheater cheats once on you they will keep on doing it because they think they can getaway with it that you will forgive them every time. Leave her, why waste more time on her, if you loves you she wouldnt cheat on you esp twice already
2006-12-13 20:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on have you ever heard if you do it to me one time shame on you but if you do it to me two times shame on me so if you let her keep on cheating on you. you need to be cheated on. that girl just need a daddy for her child now. she must had cheated on the other guy and now she want to run back to you.
2006-12-13 20:21:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think you should forgive. She's already proved that she's not very committing or promising - and I don't think you'd like to get hurt again.
2006-12-13 20:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋