l'm a married men.Every time l try to have a opposite friends but l can't.B'cos l always thinking about my lovely family.Can anybody tell me what to do.
2006-12-13 11:59:58 · 12 answers · asked by gen2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually l always work at out station.That why sometime l have some relation with the girl.should l awre or not?
2006-12-13 20:09:23 · update #1
Just don't have opposite friends.... That is all there is to it. I think that so many people cheat because they put themselves in a position where it is possible to do so. Even if it starts out as friends once you start becoming close to someone like that it can lead to stronger feeling and so on. So just stick to your happy family and don't risk it!!!
2006-12-13 12:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by deans_mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a secure and trusting marriage then friendships with people of the opposite sex should just be natural (for you and her). Why not meet people as a couple that way your wife will get to know your new friends too and you won't have anything to worry about. I am presuming that you are talking about purely platonic friendships but if not, continue to think about your lovely family and know that any unwise decisions will surely take them from you.
2006-12-13 12:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Scotty 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can have friends off the opposite sex...but if you are feeling guilty of something that usually means that you are thinking of messing around. If you friendship with another woman is just that and nothing more, then you should not feel guilty at all. If it bothers you that much, then introduce her to your family and make it clear that you are in love with your wife and very happy with her. That should make everybody feel better about the situation.
2006-12-13 12:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by ceecee_41004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are weird! Everyone have friends of same and opposite sex, unless you have ulterior motive for knowing the opposite sex, if not, I don't understand what have to do with your lovely family.
2006-12-13 18:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have "opposite friends" doesnt sound like you have problems,,sound as if you have a Happy family. Why cause problems when they arent any.
2006-12-13 12:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by Akida 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
y u want to have opposite friend?
2006-12-13 12:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by chow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your having this trouble because you want more than a friend.
if you just want a new friend go to the gym and workout with a new male friend, buy a dog, etc.
2006-12-13 13:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by thom 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if it is that hard then don't but always remember it is ok to have female friends, u can look but u just can NEVER touch.
2006-12-13 12:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is okay to have opposite sex as friends. but that is all it needs to be.
2006-12-13 12:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel unconfortable then don't do it ( have female FRIENDS)
2006-12-13 12:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋