I am not fat, I don't think I am ugly, but is there a way I can get a boyfriend?

Answer 1

I have the same problem!!!!! I'm not ugly, I'm not mean, I've got a great personality, but no one seems to like me!!!!! I ask my friends what they think is wrong with me, but they say nothing.
I hope you and I can fix this problem somehow.

Answer 2

I have some very good advise, but I hope your sitting down cuz this may take a while. You weren't too specific, so i dont know the main source of the problem, so i'll just tell you some helpful things.(if i mispell anything you know what i mean)

Okay, now i had a similar problem like this all the way until high school. Then after i hit 14 everyone just thought i was georgous for some reason, and i really hadn't done anything to change myself. I was just confident in myself. so first of all, are you the type of person, who keeps to themselves? Whether your shy, scared to talk to people, or whatever,people may mistake this for being stuck up or it could be the other way around and people are afraid to talk to you even though they like you because they may think that you are mean or somethin. or if you are a very confident person and you dress nicely some one might think that they are not good enough for you. you sound like you dont have low self esteem, but if you are a little self concience there are some things to help you get over that too. wardrobe and clothing does wonders for people's self image. wear clothing that describes your personality and make you feel good. Since your not fat wear something that shows off your shape. And you do that with class, you dont want to dress whorish or sluty(even though it will get people to notice you, you dont want that kind of attention-that's not good) But the point is : if you "feel" you look good,then you will "feel" good(physically,emotionally, and all that good stuff), and people will notice it.Make yourself stand out from all the other people, and show others that you are special.A little make up could help to even if your pretty it brings out your beauty.But just not too much. Or maybe if your a little too concieted, like i said earlier, people may not like that or they think there not worhty of your time.And your problem could be that your scaring them off.If there is a certain boy that you like you find out his interest and what he likes, what type of girl he's interested in(remain yourself,you dont have to change for anybody).Talk to him.And be real. If your shy you gotta break outta that shell, i know it sounds hard, because i used to be extreamly shy, but it's all about confidence and carrying it in the right way. You have to like you, and others will like you too. Other wise if your not bad looking, and your not fat, and you shine like a star, i dont know what the problem is. Maybe you live in an alien town and you need to get up out of there! (lol)

Answer 3

Why u want a boyfreind for? They all look, act and sound alike. No individuality if you ask me. Not worth the trouble. But to answer your question men can tell when a women has low self esteem and insecurity. And any guy worth having will run away from that. So first love yourself, then respect yourself and then you will have what you seek.

Answer 4

Have you actually been asking guys out and being turned down? Or are you just waiting and nothings happening? You may be hard to approach. People can mistake shyness or the type where ppl listen more than talk with biatchiness.Put yourself out there,ask a guy out to a movie or whatever you do. Make it seem casual like no big deal,its obviously going to be known its a date.
If your actually being turned down maybe you have a bad attitude.

Answer 5

You need more self confidence. Get some advice from a good friend about how to wear your hair and look. Do you wear make up regularly or do you constantly look like you only just got up.
Guys like girls who care about how they look. This doesn't mean starving yourself to death or getting plastic surgery. You just need to find the right kind of look that suits your face shape and the right kind of guy will come chasing after you.

Answer 6

anybody can get a boyfriend, its trying to find one up to your standards thats going to be the hard part. just give it time and dont get involved with someone for the wrong reasons. and trust me, its better to be with someone for their personality then for their looks. so if you have a good personality then you shouldnt have any problems.

Answer 7

Are you looking? I mean you can't just sit and wait girl the worlds a meat store go shopping....

Answer 8

then wats the problem? try being more assertive in this matter. go talk to someone and show ur inner true self. ur bound to find someone who likes u for who u are.

Answer 9

Ask a guy out

Answer 10

all you got to do is act naturally, be yourself, the right one will come along and find you.