2006-12-13 11:51:26 · 33 answers · asked by Scott D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
slowly..mentally tear him apart
2006-12-13 11:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dated a man who only ever mentioned ways to torment his ex-wife. Granted she left him so I guess he was a little bitter, but the daily comments just got to me after awhile. Actually I began to think he was not over her because he spent so much time thinking of ways to get back at her. The whole experience made me afraid to ever date someone who has gone through a divorce. I am not saying that all divorced people think this way, but this is just not an issue I ever want to have to deal with again.
2006-12-13 12:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tormenting anyone is a total waste of your time. If you really want to get back at someone that has done you wrong, it should be done by being happy and successful. Why would you lower yourself to bring unhappiness to another?
2006-12-13 11:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you're caught up with revenge or getting even then you've already lost the war. There's a reason that person is your ex so get over it, move on and be happy. Learn from the past but look to the future that's where your happiness lies.
2006-12-13 11:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by ralegas 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
get real all you "just move on" people. Like you haven't spent as much time as the rest of us lying awake with a broken, bleeding heart plotting your revenge!!!
Oh the ways I would torment my ex..... I smile just imagining them!!!
2006-12-13 12:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by deans_mom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
assuming you are a female:
go out to bars and flirt with men. Everytime they want your number, give them a piece of paper with your name and your exes phone number.
That way the guys will call your ex and ask for you. If he busts you on it, it is easy to say it was just a mistake. How many people remember their own number?
2006-12-13 12:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well my ex boyfriend that i am friends with tourments me but doing things i hate, that i didnt want to happen, like he doesnt talk to me sometime then we fight(which means he still cares) and he does stupid things that he knows i hate alot, thats how he torments me anyways. do things she hates if you guys are still friends if you really want to torment her, which is mean.
2006-12-13 11:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by chelsealr521 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
leave the sorry little wench alone thats the purpose of exs to leave each other alone alone to find some one else jees ifn ya want her back be a man an step up if not walk no run away
2006-12-13 11:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, if I am forced to see them I act like I never cared and just friendly let them see im not upset in the least bit, them thinking you never cared will drive them mad!
if you dont have to see them then just ignore them.
I know men cant handle the silent treatment.
dont respond to calls or emails, eventually they snap and say something to make you mad just to get a response and
if you dont respond to that either then you have done a great job
and you have the pleasure of knowing they are somewhere being very frustrated! good luck.
2006-12-13 11:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by InProgress:-) 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why you want to do so? Move on dear, if you can't leave everything behind, you end up torment yourself.
2006-12-13 11:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by Fish Master 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't have to....the consequences of his own actions have been more tormenting than anything that I could have dreamed of doing.
2006-12-13 12:46:49 · answer #11 · answered by SUSAN N 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋