dose a real friend call you gay, screw up and ugly (etc)(etc)even thow your not or your tring not to be? this hase been happining ever scinc i became friends wth this person
2006-12-13 11:46:46 · 26 answers · asked by ur friend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No a real friend respects you!
2006-12-13 11:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this person is probably just joking. If you care enough about this person to continue being friends, then let them know you don't find this funny but you do find it to be hurtful. This person probably isn't a quality friend to begin with. Most people who know how to be a friend wouldn't do that to begin with. But if you sense something good in this person, give him/her a chance to fix the problem. He/she may not have any idea that you have been taking it so hard. Good Luck!
2006-12-13 11:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're just 'friendly' with the person then it shouldn't really matter - if the guy is your 'friend' you may have an issue there - if this person's your 'best friend' ditch him. It doens't look like you can ignore or like the fact that he's doing that - a real friend for you is best to be someone who can see the truth about you.
2006-12-13 11:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i myself do insult other people like that just as a joke. But if this person has been doing it since you became friends with him i think that he's been doing it a bit excessivly....so i say it's just a natural habbit that he/she does, but if you want him to relize what he's doing talk to him about it, don't let it slide. I mean i'm sure you can take a little joke, but i understand to much of a joke it gets old, so my advice is to let him know about what he/she is doing. And if you think after that talk you think that he wasn't joking about all that junk then he is OBVIOUSLY not your friend
2006-12-13 11:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by daryl7772003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like when this person calls you this? Do you do something to provoke this behavior? If you treat this person the best you can, like you want to be treated, and they do not treat you like that back they probably aren't a great friend.
Sit down with this person and ask them why they call you names. Also, ask them (and yourself) why you became friends in the first place. The only person who can pick who you would like to be friends with is yourself. So think about this, deep and hard, and make whatever decision you would like.
2006-12-13 11:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by tntgoesboom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there not your real friends because a real friend accepts you for who you are inside and outside. Real friends don't judge you like that they care for you no matter what you are. If you can take my advice and get away for this person because they don't appreciate who you are and the person will start to appreciate you went your gone
2006-12-13 11:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by *Cherrytop* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are bothered by it, tell your friend that you are not amused by their type of joking around. If it continues after that, then this person is not a real friend.
2006-12-13 11:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by Alletery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i woulndt consider this person as a friend and i would probably stop hanging out with them cause u may not feel like those words are effecting u but they probably are sub contiously
2006-12-13 11:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by cutie123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i call all my friends mean names inuslt them put them down. but im a jerk. they know it and love me because im honest. i also look out for those i call my friends no one ***** with my ugly stupid fat **** up friends and i mean NO ONE.
i doubt your "friend" is like that he prolly just cals you his friend so he can put you down and not have you get mad at him. i know a lot of people like that it makes em feel powerful because they hurt the person and the person doesnt respond. tell your "friend" to go make out with the buisness end of a glock 7.
2006-12-13 11:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i don't think that this person respects you.
I don't think that this person is your real friend.
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Unless he is joking. Cause some people do that randomly and call people gay just for fun...
2006-12-13 11:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by Dancer101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋