well i need to be more happier with who i am & stuff then there is this guy At school i've really wanted to talk to but simple smiles arent enough. I feel as if there is always something missing like i would always never be happy. Though its not depression i just dont know what to do.
-sarah
2006-12-13 11:27:50 · 9 answers · asked by sarah B. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't love someone else unless you love yourself first.
2006-12-13 11:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look at yourself and pick 3 things you like....ex: your hair, a piercing, a tattoo...anything, then you look at yourself every day and say, I like (List the 3 things) and ____ (pick another thing) isn't so bad. Pretty soon, you'll end up liking most of yourself...and being able to accept the rest. If you need an even bigger boost, participate in something you're good at (sports, art, writing) anything. Work out... run... make yourself proud of yourself everyday for something. Face a fear, talk to that boy, thats a start, for now. If this doesn't work, consider talking to someone about it, though you say it's not depression, you never know. Hope this helps.
2006-12-13 19:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ophelia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some faith in yourself. Don't over work yourself to get a guy to notice you. Many girls fake their personality and image to get attention only to find, in the end, that they're getting the wrong attention. In order to be more confident, you need to believe in yourself. You need to accept yourself and appreciate yourself. I don't think you're depressed, but neglect that you're not someone who you would like to be..which isn't uncommon among young girls. Take a look at yourself and realize that you shouldn't change yourself for some guy.
2006-12-13 19:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Martial Arts classes are an EXCELLENT way to boost self confidence. And they are so fun too. You get in great shape and get alot of practice working in front of a group and with others close up.
2006-12-13 19:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To boost your confidence, be active in hobbies you enjoy, and are good at. Join clubs that interest you. Read the book unstoppable confidence by Kent Sayre.
2006-12-13 19:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by Terry C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt state your age, but assume you are a teenager.
I feel alot of the emotions you are having are normal,and only time gives you the answers. Only you can make yourself happy,best of luck.
2006-12-13 19:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by Akida 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU have got to stand up for yourself. This is a showing of confidence. Get active, take a risk or two, speak on a subject you know, join a group,etc. You free.................do
2006-12-13 19:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by samaustinashlee_billiewjr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u could post ur picture and if ur good looking we could say ur hott or u could go to a big mall like the mall of america nd just shop around. sooner or later sum1 will say ur pretty
2006-12-13 19:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be who you are!!! try to befriend the guy that you like. always greet him in a friendly manner whenever you see him.
2006-12-13 19:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋