Has anyone been through this?I feel so sad , hurt and lonley.I am 24 years old and married my husband who is 38 years old.My husband takes good care of me giving me whater ever i want i drive a nice car BMW and nothing is really off limits on what i can buy if i want it.I feel like i am in a cage i have tried to voice my feelings to my husband but it falls on death ears he thinks that i am being dramatic or childish.I try my best to please him i am 5 ft 7 and 115 pounds so i keep fit ,always make sure to be dressed nice, and i make an effort to well made up for him at all times.I try to be romantic some evenings, talk to him,take care of him, arrange to go out, but nothing works.We have sex 3 to 4 days out of the week usually 3 rounds but he still has cheated on me 3 times.
2006-12-13 11:19:42 · 7 answers · asked by Cally M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I suspect he may have paid a prostitute at one point will on a buisness trip?
2006-12-13 11:21:16 · update #1
I going insane he is not home again he is late by two hours.
2006-12-13 11:25:44 · update #2
Honey, a lot of women would like to be in your "cage". Count your blessings or if it is that horrible get out!
2006-12-13 11:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Time to get into counseling. I seem to keep saying this over and over. Relationships are about communication. That's pretty much all marriage is. If it's not there the two of you need to change that. If he doesn't care about money spending then let me suggest a place called Miraval in Arizona. They have some amazing workshops and a spa that's absolutely fantastic. No matter how you look at this it's time to start the communication process. It's a dead end if you don't and it doesn't sound like you want this to end. So fight for it.
2006-12-13 19:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by Evolving 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has cheated on you 3 times he will do it again. My first husband did the same thing, and 15 years later he continues to do it to his girlfriend now. Like I said once a cheater always one. leave while you have your pride and no T.S.D.
2006-12-13 19:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by c_schreel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What's your question? He is the way he is, you can't change him. Accept him - or move on. You do sound dramatic and childish; grow up and take responsibility for your choices. Marrying this man was your choice, and staying in this marriage is your choice. If you absolutely cannot accept certain fundamental traits of his personality - then consider leaving. You have control over your life.
2006-12-13 19:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like you would rather have the money and car than an honest husband.
If you were worried about him cheating then you would set some ground rules for him to follow. You would tell him that if he cheats again you are out of there, but you are more worried about your life style.
2006-12-13 19:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are way too young to be caged up with someone that isn't faithful. Find a real man. Someone who is man enough to think about pleasing his woman. There are plenty out there.
2006-12-13 19:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cally Honey you need to let go of this man~ If you are not happy let go.........~
2006-12-13 19:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by YO~NO~FUI E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋