How do I tell my husband? I am stressed since we are already worried enough about money as it is..of all the days to happen..
I am in the library right now putting my resume in everywhere I can..
2006-12-13 11:19:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
omg you poor thing, sorry to hear that! and you know what, i dont think there is an easy way to tell him, just make it known to him asap cause its so much better when things are put out in the open, and he'll respect you for coming upfront about it and telling him. I wish you the best in finding a new job!! merry christmas =)
2006-12-13 11:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
First, many times a kick in the *** makes you take a step forward. You'll probably get a better job than the one you lost today. It could very well be that a better opportunity awaits you. Be calm and take a look at the whole picture, and relax. There are lots of other jobs out there. Relax on the way home, and tell him as soon as you see him. Be calm about it, and ask him for a hug. Remember, there are many people who would love to have this problem, instead of what they are dealing with. It's only money...
Good luck.
2006-12-13 19:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by wonderer 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bless your heart!
I know it may not help you to feel better right now but "everything happens for a reason".
Perhaps your perfect job is out there waiting for you and you would have missed it had you still been at the old one.
I'm sending a prayer for you, that you find a great new job with ease, comfort and peace.
And just tell your husband. Hopefully he'll be more supportive than you think!
2006-12-13 19:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by lubinmt 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would wait at least a week or 2. try to get as many job interviews as you can. get any job out there, even if it doesn't bring in much money. a job is a job. any job is better than being unemployed.
don't tell your husband yet that you lost your job. if you decide to tell him, wait till he's in a good mood. you don't him want to stress out even more. that's how fights get ugly.
or you can wait till you get another job before telling your husband, that you got fired from your other job.
I am married too. there are things that I keep to myself sometimes to avoid a fight.
Most of the people say to just tell him right away. I don't agree with that right away stuff. It is not always easy to tell your lover things immediately
2006-12-13 19:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by choosinghappiness 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just be honest...marriage is about for better or for worse...you're trying to find a new position already. Some people would sit on their booties for months before doing something about it. Good luck, I know the feeling $$$ makes everything much more stressful.
2006-12-13 19:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by SadToday22 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you try looking where you last saw it? Sorry, wrong kind of lost. There are jobs out there. Just tell your husband as straightforwardly as possible. Since you will have a lot of free time you can find new ways to save money.
2006-12-13 19:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by Wendi lu who 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd say it's best to be honest with him.
My mom lost her job over the summer (she found a new one thankfully) and telling the family must have been extremely hard. But life moves on. There's nothing you can do now but try your best to find a new one.
Good luck
2006-12-13 19:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OH, I am sorry to hear that! I would just come right out and tell your husband. Best to just get it over with. Good luck on getting a new job!
2006-12-13 19:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by intenseone 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What a bummer. I know how you feel. I lost a job a day after Christmas! There is no obstacle we can't overcome one way or another. Good Luck.
2006-12-13 19:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by Viviana 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well honey you are doing the right thing...and keep a positive thought because you will probably get a job that you like a whole lot better...just be honest with him and tell him..I know you can do it!
2006-12-13 19:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋