my friend is totally in love wit this guy. so inlove that she ditches her best friend just to say hi to this guy. me and her have been friends 4 a loooooooooooooooong time what should i do?
2006-12-13 11:06:07 · 13 answers · asked by jessica g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do what you have always done - be happy for her happiness and be there to comfort her when she needs it. It is easy for us to collapse ourselves in new love (even you will be tempted if you have not already) and it is terrible when our friends give us a hard time about that. Certainly, if she has hurt your feelings you might want to talk to her about it, if you are afraid it will happen again.
I'll tell you, I have a twin sister and she moved out of our parent's home first to live with some guy. That was cool, but I missed her terribly. We set up a regular night that was just for us every week and that was great. Every Tuesday it would be just her and me and that was enough to help me feel like a big part of her life while allowing her to spend most of her free time with the guy she wanted to. Where there is a will, there is always a way.
Peace!
2006-12-13 11:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dunno your full situation so I can only guess a few scenario: Scenario 1: have you watched the movie "Just Friends". well, you might find the answer there. The guy might not want to be in your "Just a friend" circle anymore and take the relationship into a higher level... Scenario 2: sometimes friendship is born to satify an immediate need. some become friends because they like to do something together. some become friends because their schedule allows them to be together most of the time. and others become friends for the security that the other one provides. in line with this, if the needs are not anymore satisfied then the friendship can fall apart. is it possible that this is happening to you?
2016-05-23 21:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend may be a little mixed up.
Give her time !
next time you see her walk up and talk to her!
act like nothing has happend and avoid talking about the guy!
If you are nice, caring, and loving she will probably realize what a great friend you are. It may not mean her ditching the guy but she will at least make time for you too!
2006-12-13 11:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is hang out with more people sooner or later when she realizes the guy is no longer there she will know she lost a good friend. Hopefully this does not happen, but most girls usually give all their time and attention to guys its their life, and guys well they still talk to their friends and their gf.
2006-12-13 11:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by penny01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a good friend, you'll want her to be happy & find love. We all grow up, find a partner, commit, & have less time for our friends. True friends understand, & like seeing their friends happy.
2006-12-13 11:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just give her space,she'll realise that she really needs her best friend and she'll come running back,in the meantime,hang out with someone else -- but don't not be her friend. good luck =]
2006-12-13 11:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by janie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not sure of your ages, me and my friends go through this, give her time it will wear off and everything will be fine, you too will go through this one day, if you are still young.
2006-12-13 11:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by HappyGoLucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that he isn't going to be there forever and when he is gone that since she ditched other people for him that they arent going to want her back
2006-12-13 11:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by who 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing wish her happiness and move on. there are others out there, right now all she is thinking about is him, she'll wake up soon.
2006-12-13 11:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should find a guy you like and do the same she does and see how she feels about it.
2006-12-13 11:09:44 · answer #10 · answered by coolanarabbit 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋