my gf thinks we should have an baby but i dont know if im up to it do u thing its an good idea?
2006-12-13 11:05:25 · 26 answers · asked by valor 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
don't do it
2006-12-13 11:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No offense but It's A baby or an apple.
If the next word begins with a vowel you use the letters An other wise you use an 'A'
IF you're asking the question than you are not ready! Also I don't know how old you are but it would have been nice if you had told us how old you are.
I am a traditionalist and think it's first come marriage and than the baby carriage!
Good luck and sorry for the nit picking.
2006-12-13 19:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by mistyfan69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby is not something you feel 'up to doing'. It takes 2 responsible, committed, financially stable (not rich, but you should have a budget, savings, etc.), married, loyal, grown ups to make this decision. If one of you is not sure about bringing a human being into this world then you should not do it. How old are you and your gf? If you are young, it may not be the best time anyway. Why does she want one now? Find out and that will help you decide if you should conceive.
2006-12-13 19:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by alms75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know if you're up to having a baby, then I suggest you shouldn't have one yet. Once you have a baby, your whole life changes. Take time and wait until the both of you are ready.
2006-12-13 19:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would look for a little more committment than girlfriend before you decide to commit to taking care of another human being both physically, emotionally, and financially for 18 years. Get a dog first. But children are wonderful. Just not for relationships that are not strong on their own.
2006-12-13 19:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by bicentennialbuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her to give you more time to think about it. when you're ready you'll let her know. just dont let her pressure you. one thing you dont want to do is bring a baby into the world and then back out. so talk about it before you do anything.
love jen.
2006-12-13 19:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jennie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me old fashioned but, I think you should get married first. (first comes love, second comes marriage, then comes baby in the baby carriage) Finish school if you haven't done so already, and get a good job.
2006-12-13 19:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by Cadillac 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but your message tells me that you aren't mature enough to care for a child.
You're asking for trouble if you have a baby now.
2006-12-13 19:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Nozalott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.
Talk about it with her and decide together. Don't both decide separately ... you're in a relationship. Is that how you'd plan on parenting this child? Both separately? If not, a discussion is in order.
Sit down with her and weigh the pros and cons.
2006-12-13 19:09:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have any doubts at all, then you should explain them to your g/f and tell her you're not ready. if she loves you, she'll respect that. you shouldn't have a baby until both of you are ready to give it your 110% effort b/c it really is a big commitment.
2006-12-13 19:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by chingona1027 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you said Girlfriend Don't do it when you come back on and say Wife then it will be a diffrent story. Tell her she can wait.
2006-12-13 19:12:07 · answer #11 · answered by I_Can_Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋