She thinks that guys don't like her because she's not skinny enough or pretty, which is not true. The problem is when a guy show interest in her, she becomes loud and opinionated towards them and then she wonders why they will not call her back . well alot of them tell me its because they are turn of by her loud mouth. And how do I tell her to tone down a bit without hurting her feelings?
2006-12-13 10:51:46 · 11 answers · asked by JULEE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just in casual conversation, you can hint around by saying that you know that guys like girls that are mild mannered. Being loud and to forward may intimidate guys. That could be a way to get the conversation going and ask her which type she thinks she is. Hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-12-13 10:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by kayjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her what the guys told you and then offer to help her practice being less opinionated and loud. Maybe have a code word you can use to remind her to tone it down.
2006-12-13 10:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its those guys that are wrong!
Just because someone talks loud doesn't make them any different than anyone else.
I think u should tell her the truth, and then tell her what I said above.
2006-12-13 10:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by *Kendall* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maximum adult males would really have the female ask him out (in my journey). perchance he thinks he's being set up, in case you fairly like him ask him to loaf round, if he fairly would not opt to be in a courting you adult males ought to easily go grab some lunch sometime only as friends, no body is to busy to pass have lunch with a chum. so a ways as your guy friends go, perchance they are jealous and attempt to sabotage you, tell them to back off in case you don't like them doing that. reliable success to ya! ;)
2016-10-18 06:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by rybicki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she's such a nice girl and very pretty but you've noticed she comes on a bit strong with the guys who seem to like her.
Then I would let it go....she'll either pay attention to what you've said or not....it's her call.
2006-12-13 10:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she can't figure that out for herself maybe she shouldn't be breeding. you don't want to disturb the evolutionary balance. or just tell her what those guys told you. it's not you saying it... you are just the messenger delivering valuable information that will assist her in her evolutionary struggle. it's really not a big deal. if she is opinionated, dishing it out then she should be able to take it right?
2006-12-13 10:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo girl your too loud chill and lower that voice then you would have a lot more call backs.
2006-12-13 10:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think no matter what or how u tell her she will be hurt, so just tell her, she'll eventually get over it, and may actually learn from it. Not telling her is worse than telling her, atleast she will know why, then she can try bettering herself for the better.
2006-12-13 10:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by emmarck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her...use something you heard her say, as an example...don't accuse, just suggest she may want to consider changing that behavior so guys will find her more approachable...
2006-12-13 10:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her. Let her figure it out for herself. She will. Eventually.
2006-12-13 10:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by Very Nice Indeed! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋