Is it normal that after a dramatic break up and many times to want to see him but then no, but then yes and he took it and I took it.
7 months without seeing the other but e mailed some times but just to complain on my part.
He comes to visit, just to help with something he offered but acts like nothing ever happened, the same behaviour of taking my things to see them, cooking, same confidence to do whatever he used to do as when we were better friends, to me if time passed you cannot do the same as before.
If someone offends you, if they treat you like you are the one at blame more than they are; but you are not very nice either sometimes, how can someone just see you the next day and act like nothing. Why do they tell you forget it all. He comes, spends hours with me, it is always a nice time but then he goes and forgets me for daaays; he says if I want to chat I should start.
Is that friendhip for real? Are really that way things with friends after dating? thanks
2006-12-13 10:43:30 · 3 answers · asked by Pandora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sad 2 say i dont think it could ever b "NORMAL" again or @least 4 a while b/c both of u wont 4get what happened and what u guyz 1ce were i think thats what hes tryna do by actin like nothin happenin but i think u should tell him lets jus squash tha awkwardness and jus try being friendz...idk if that help but in a lot of cases time makes change and whats ment 2 happen i guess..will happen and apologize 4 the thingz u've said n not meant n mayB he will do the same if not u'll feel like the bigger person...but it seemz 2 me like u want 2 b with him again...if it was jus another 1 of ur friendz i dont think u'd bug out if u didnt talk 2 them n a few dayz...i kno its VERRRRYYY hard but slowly try 2 move on ...focus on whats more important n ur life cuz it cant b him boyz suck keep ur head up good luck
2006-12-13 10:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt associate yourself with someone who treated you wrongly. No matter how much this person might tell you that you "still like them" because you dont want to talk to them, it doesnt matter whether you like them or not. Why would you hang out with someone that did you dirty.
2006-12-13 10:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony Cruz C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like he is trying to keep you in suspense.which is uncaring and selfish.on his part.tell him to shape the hell up.are ship the hell out.but you can say it a little nicer.remember you are not second best compared to him so don't act it are you well be second best in his eyes.
2006-12-13 11:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by derrik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋