ok my best friend and i went out last year (exactly like 11 months and like 16 days) and one of my close freinds is dating him. so should i be mad cuz u know she's dating my ex? and its like my best freind dusnt have time for me anymore. he dusnt call me anymore like we used to. Would u be mad if u were in my position
2006-12-13 10:36:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
as u said ur ex
then he is not ur bfriend anymore
so she has the right to love him because he is not urs bfriend anymore
2006-12-13 10:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are going to be mad, but get mad and let it go. U dont need to be wasting energy on people who dont have time for you! I learned a long time ago not to stress over fair weather friends. People who change when they get a new boyfriend or money or something that they feel is great so now, they no longer have time to be friends with you. He is your ex for a reason, he wasnt good enough for you. Let her have him cause she will be calling you and crying about something he did to her and let her know that you have been there and done that so whatever she has to tell you is nothing new to you. Keep it short and sweet and dont even let her in your life as a best friend, keep her on aquaintance status. Hope this helps you!
2006-12-13 18:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lou Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a right to be a little mad. I would be too mainly about a friend hooking up with an ex. Even though u 2 aren't together anymore u may still have feelings there for him and it upsets u to see ur friend with him.
2006-12-13 18:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I would be very upset. I mean this is your ex and your best friend. If anything you shouldnt feel bad about being upset you have the right to be. But yes to answer your question if I was in your position I would be mad.
2006-12-13 18:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by cheergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see how the situation bothers you. You feel betrayed by your friend. Maybe even jealous of the relationship. This is perfectly normal. Don't let this cloud hang over you. Talk to him about it, and be honest. Tell him how you feel. In the mean time I'm sure you have other friends. Spend your time with them instead.
2006-12-13 18:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Brian F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be mad at her she is going out with your EX that is totally not cool. it would be worst if the reason you broke up was bad I mean how could she go out w/ a guy that hurt you .that is plain Crap. and if she doesnt have time for you you find new friends and dont make time for her . you dump her instead of she dumping you.
2006-12-13 18:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be way mad but u know that once a guy dates u(even if he is ur best friend) thingz r gonna change. u can't expect him to still think the same about u....
2006-12-13 18:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by monica t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it means ur friend justed used u 4 ur ex!
2006-12-13 18:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by krista u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would be very mad, no dout about it
2006-12-13 18:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by jack_black_sux 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋