He doesnt like me its a dream that wont come true but I cant let go help!
2006-12-13 10:32:08 · 17 answers · asked by baby_jane2448 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know that "bitter pill" that people talk about all the time? I think you're probably going to have to swallow this one, and I'm sure its going to be his tough loss, but the bottom line is, you can't make someone like you who doesn't. You'll find someone else.
2006-12-13 10:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by volkgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are wasting energy. This guy doesnt like you and you know he doesnt, focus on someone who will or just dont worry about it and a great guy will come to you. It seems that girls do this horrible thing, liking guys who treat them rudely or doesnt want them in the first place. Trust me, if you stop focusing on him and doing your own thing, he may start paying you some attention. Guys enjoy the chase, they dont like it when some girl will do anything for them, that is too easy for them. U can let go, trust me! If you write down how you feel U deserve to be treated by a guy and accept nothing less, you will see that it wasnt a dream in the first place. I really hope it works out for you and remember U deserve someone who thinks U are great tooo! Take Care!
2006-12-13 10:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lou Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear you dream didn't come true, but that is part of life and many of us humans have been through this before. The best thing you can do is find something to do to keep your mind of it for awhile or live through it and accept it as is. I have had many women who do not like me and I can not change them when I expressed I liked them. So I just move on saying "that not the end of the world, and there are plenty other women out there who is bound to like me somehow, out of billions of them." But for you would be the same, except your interest is geared towards guys.
2006-12-13 10:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take and find yourself through another man.
Take the guy you likes qualities and turn on's and seek those in another man. You will find him and he complete you. Just as a missing puzzle piece he will fit you and allow you to forget about this other gentleman.
If you can do this you can be the stronger person in this situation.
Yes... its hard but if we can all accomplish challenging things we will all become more distinguished, stronger & less frigtened individuals in the end.
Best of luck with careful council.
Hope This Helps
Merry Christmas
-GarySomers
2006-12-13 10:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by imgarysomers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way but I totally got over him. I f you just wait you will realize that he is not meant for you.But that does not mean your heart wont hurt.Eventually you have to let go of the past and dream for the future. Don't worry about him he will eventually realize you are not paying attention to him and he will come back to you!!!
2006-12-13 10:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright ; weve been in school for about four months now ; and ive liked this one kiid ever since like the first week of school ; and what i did was ; just let it run its course. and yu shouldnt put yur life on hold. thats stupid. and when i finally realized that ; i got a boyfriend. weve been going out for two months and a week. and he means more to me then anything. and it felt weird at first ; seeing as though i still liked the other kiid ; but my boyfriend grew on me ; and im rly super glad i got over the other kiiid ;; yu should try going after someone else. yu just might realize it doesnt hurt as much as yu expected it too.
.. kasii =]
2006-12-13 10:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know i have the same problem and believe me the right guy for u will come along. try getting it something u like and then every time his name pops into ur head say to urself there is someone out there for me and he isnt the one. Also try talking to ur friends i did that and i hardly find myself hurting anymore!
good luck!!
2006-12-13 10:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating or going out & having fun. You can't do it "without hurting" at all. You'll feel some pain, but trust me, you'll get over it!
2006-12-13 10:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is hard on everyone.
In your mind picture yourself walking away with your head held proudly.
2006-12-13 10:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just find another guy to start liking. like me
my-d-han-d@sbcglobal.net
if you are anywhere from 14 to 16 thats perfect
2006-12-13 10:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by LovingJesusAndMusic! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋