can't men and women go out have fun without the threat of ruinning a good friendship by making false commiments
2006-12-13 10:19:04 · 10 answers · asked by bratisme006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe the men you go out with think they are the best thing a woman could ever want and expect that all women are chasing them. Too bad, they could enjoy themselves more if they just relaxed and had fun with the women instead of being afraid of them.
2006-12-13 10:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is generalizing. Not ALL men want commitments. It's also way to general to answer. Are you doing something to make the men you are dating think you want a commitment? Are you selecting men with a particular personality trait that leads to them wanting something more serious? Where are you looking for these male "friends"? Do you let him pay for these "outings" all the time? At some point, depending on the man in question and if everything is going well, he may think "Wow, she is awesome. I want more." Also, as in any relationship, communication is absolutely KEY. If your not up front in the beginning about just wanting a friend to go out with and play around the town you might be sending him a mixed message. If you don't tell him you don't want any more than friendship he has no information to work with.
2006-12-13 10:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Evolving 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, most women *are* looking for commitment.
Few women like to be intimate with a guy and not know he is commited to only them.
Second, only women fool themselves into thinking men can have female friends. They cannot.
Men have 3 categories of women:
[1] Women they want to screw but haven't screwed yet;
{2] Women they have already screwed and want to screw again;
[3] Women too hideous to screw.
And they aren't "friends" with [3]'s. They don't "go out and have fun" with [3]'s. If they want to go out with someone they don't want to f*ck, they'll go out with the *guys*. Period. But if a man is a "friend", he wants to bang you. Sorry but that's the way it is.
Why do you think so many women want a gay guy friend? He *can* be a friend and shop and have a latte without the sexual tension.
And yes to sleep with you a man will say he is committed - even when he isn't. Shocking indeed. Like women faking orgasms, it's tough to admit but there it is.
2006-12-13 10:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's where "most" women mess it up for the rest of them. Since most of the gripe about why their guy can't commit, guys tend to think that it's the only thing they want.
There's nothing wrong with men and women having fun.
2006-12-13 10:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause some women are ,as soon as they start dating a guy they are already planning the honeymoon.
2006-12-13 10:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what wagon did you fall off lady
stop saying all men are a like
no one speaks for me
2006-12-13 10:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by BIG JOHN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men think like that.
2006-12-13 10:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think they can...but i also think both sexes have an age where they just want more...or it could be me just thinking.
2006-12-13 10:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they stupid and just dont realize we love life independently
2006-12-13 10:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't.
Wanna hook up?
2006-12-13 11:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by GAValkRider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋