okay...i was best friends with a girl named carlie. she ditched me for a girl named rylee to be popular. she knew i liked gabe,but she dated him anyway. she keeps sending me mean emails and being mean at school. rylee keeps sending me friend requests on myspace. i deny them. they both wear matching outfits (looks hideous and immuture) but it hurts my feelings so bad. now she is dating gabe again!!!!! i cant stand it. oh and does anybody know a good boarding schools in washington state for 6th graders??!?!?!
2006-12-13 10:15:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I am sorry that you are having a tough time at school. Middle school is such a difficult age that can bring out the worst in kids. She doesn't sound like a true friend to me. You deserve way better!!! Try and show her that you don't need her friendship. Branch out and join a club or activity after school where you can meet new friends. I know how hard it is to have a friend stab you in the back. It hurts a lot. But you will be the more mature one if you just walk away. Sometimes it takes heartaches like this to realize who your true friends are. Trust me this Carlie girl may get what's coming to her. I always believed what goes around comes around. Then maybe she will realize how she treated you and you can decide when she comes crawling back if you want to be her friend again. In the mean time. Hang in there!! You sound like a true friend and anyone would be likely to have you has their friend!!!
2006-12-13 10:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by AB11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. Life really sucks like that. There isn't much that you can do without being seen badly. However, you could try and do little things to sabotage her- like compliment carlie and rylee on their outfits, and say something like, "Oh. You guys look so cute. Like those little twin girls (or twin girl and guy) you see that are dressed identically"- just little barbs
Or, confide to Gabe that "I'm happy that she's decided to be with you, because she still hasn't gotten over *most popular/hottest guy in your grade*. I mean, she still sleeps with his picture under her pillow", or stuff like that. Because while its better to do nothing and find new friends, its really hard.
As for boardding school, if you really want to go, talk to your parents about going to one/finding one for you. A good boarding school would probably cost more than $30,000 per year, so you'd need your parents approval, unless you can try and get a scholarship.
good luck
2006-12-13 10:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Omg, I feel really sorry for you. We've all been through that horrible time when everything was wrong in our lives! If Carlie is going to dump you, try to put the whole thing behind you. It's natural to feel bitter and angry over what happened, but you don't need to be. But Carlie doesn't deserve your friendship after what she did to you! She knows that she is hurting you, and apparently she doesn't care. Try to forget the whole thing and start fresh. Try making some new friends who like you for what you are. Just talk to someone, like a new student. It's a surefire way to create a new friendship. Lots of sympathy and good luck!
2006-12-13 10:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by whatevbookwrm687 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let her see how hurt you are lift your spirits high and think of more positive things.Try finding new friends and if rylee isnt being mean and wants to be your friend and sendsyou friend requests then maybe you should except them. well i hope youmake the right choice and remember in a few years this will all be history.
2006-12-13 10:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by k4c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a 14 year old 6th grader who flunked, or did you lie about your age, if you did that is pathetic, who is that desperate for myspace. Obviously she is not your friend so it shouldn't be any of your business on who shes dating. If you were smart you would ignore them. If Rylee bothers you so much tell her to leave you alone, GET A BACKBONE! By the way your only a 6th grader all the drama isn't anything. Your all making into something stupid. I know, I'm a sophomore.
2006-12-13 13:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just get her out of your life. I'm sorry, but you have to forget your past with her. Anybody that treats you like that does NOT deserve to be your friend or even an aquaintance of you. Find another guy who won't hurt you. I know, it's gonna be hard. But you can make it. Oh, and sorry I don't know a good boarding school.
2006-12-13 14:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by Juno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6th grade?? You shouldn't be dating yet, much yet posting your personal life on myspace.com???
You need to play it safe.
"MySpace.com and other similar sites are designed to allow people to share their creativity, pictures, and information with others. Sometimes people do this to find romance. Sometimes they do it to find friends with similar interest. While this may be okay for adults, it is not okay for kids."
"MySpace.com recognizes this, and prohibits anyone under 14 years of age from using their website. Unfortunately, while they may set rules to keep younger kids off the site, they can’t prevent kids from lying about their age, pretending to be 14 years of age or older. To address this, MySpace.com has developed special software to review the profiles of their members, to try and find anyone under age, based on information the members post about themselves. It’s not perfect, but it does help spot the underage members."
2006-12-13 10:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mama of 2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your story was made into a movie "odd one out" it was on life time and is a pretty good movie...do what the girl in the movie did and talk to your mom about it, it's hard to have an open relationship with your mom, i no, but it's harder letting your friend rip ur insides out.
2006-12-13 10:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by santaz_lil_slacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude seriously, you're in 6th grade.
Make fun of her behind her back and send her love poems from other boys when "Gabe" is around.
Who cares, stop caring what other people think or do.
2006-12-13 10:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by Starlight 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't let your feelings get hurt by her, she is just being immature. Don't worry, none of this will matter to you in a few years - it's just part and parcel of being young and getting sucked into petty drama.
2006-12-13 10:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by Bwilkerson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋