my partner thinks I dont love her because I didnt ring last night due to not having credit on my phone to do so, I will tonight though and hence I will ring her but right now I feel so lost.
I am thinking
A) What if she leaves me because I didn't ring
B) How can I say sorry
C) What would I do if she does call it quits, will life be worth living
she is my WORLD, MY LIFE MY EVVERYTHING, I have changed because of her and I know that I found the one person I could spend the rest of my life with, I just dont know what to do/what I would do if she was to leave me...I really dont.....so please give me some advice here, I need to say sorry and hope that she understands because I feel lost nad so so sad right now and am cxrying as I write this out for everyone.
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Mitch :(
2006-12-13 10:13:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its not just that she's abit angry with me from something I said last weekend...it was just the wrong time to say what I did
2006-12-13 10:28:03 · update #1
tell her just how sorry you are, she might be mad but she will eventually get over it, especially if you explain you didn't have credit on your phone. tell her exactly what you typed here. Girls aren't always cruel, she might just understand!!! good luck
2006-12-13 10:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry, but she doesn't sound like the kind of girl you should throw your life away for...she sounds petty and needy. If I were you, I'd consider breaking up with her.
However, that's not what you want to hear right now, so instead I'll just say that you should be up front with her: tell her the truth, then tell her that you didn't realize how much it would hurt her, and let her know that from now on you'll try to call from a pay phone or home phone if your cell is out of minutes. You might also consider buying her a single rose or other small gift (maybe a single truffle from a chocolate store?) as an apology.
Good luck!
2006-12-13 18:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mitch, just tell her "Sorry I didn't ring last night, but I didn't have any minutes on my phone." If she leaves you over something petty like that, then maybe you need to re-evaluate your relationship. It's sad that you feel you couldn't go on with out her, because I'm here to tell you that you will. I don't know how old you are Mitch, but don't walk behind someone and grovel for their love. Don't feel like your lucky to be groveling, it's not good for your self esteem. You deserve to be in a mutually giving relationship. Stop crying and put some minutes on your phone so you can ring her tonight, but don't waste time on apologies too much, it's not a big deal.
2006-12-13 18:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Mysteri O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Mitch,
Answers to your questions:
A. Then she wasn't the right person for you.
B. You shouldn't have to.
C. Time to move on. Time will heal all wounds.
Listen to the majority of the answers your getting here. Most piont to the fact you shouldn't be going through this over a phone call. Always tell the truth it's much easier to do. If she can't handle it you need to get your life together and move on.
2006-12-13 18:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Highlander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you put someone on a pedestal, they have to fall and it sounds like you have this woman in very high regard. Sounds like you love her more then you love yourself and you are putting a whole lot of energy in this relationship. Love is more then just a missed phone call, she should know that and not place your whole relationship in the balance. If she get's mad and breaks up over a phone call, she's really not worth it. She should understand about not having enough minutes and you shouldn't have to apologize for that, just explain it to her. If she calls it quit over something as mediocre as this then it's good you found out now and yes, life is definitely worth living. As desperate as it seems if you give it time you WILL get over it. I hope it works out tho' and that she has as high a regard for you as you have for her.
2006-12-13 18:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by musicisme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really is your> everything, then understanding why you didn't get to call her will be included in the> everything.
A- if she leaves you because you didn't ring, then she isn't very loving, understanding, or forgiving.
B- you can say you're sorry by simply telling her what happened and that if you could have helped it, you would have.
C- life will be worth living because there are plenty of females out there who are loving, understanding, and forgiving.
2006-12-13 18:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, dude! Explain your situation on the phone tonight & she'll forgive you! There is no way she's gonna end the relationship over that.
One thought: Since you're crazy about her, why don't you pour your heart out in a love letter and give it to her on Christmas? You can express your feelings, she will love it, and it will bring you closer together.
When you talk to her on the phone next time, tell her you missed talking to her the other night, your night felt kind of empty without her, stuff like that.
2006-12-13 18:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see, cell phones are bad and lead to alienation
first, you have to be strong and call her
second, you use words and explain and say sorry
if its just being poor , people have to understand, some people can't even afford a stamp sometimes.
If she quits then you have to deal with it, get some good porn and a lot of beer. Then find someone better. Its painful but thats how life is sometimes.
2006-12-13 18:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know which of you is worse off. Both of you are blowing a little missed call waaaaaay out of proportion, especially since you didn't call because you couldn't. If she didn't understand that, then she is too demanding. Let this one go and she will perceive your every action as proof that you don't love her, until she controls your every move.
If you think your life isn't worth living because some unforgiving, bullying woman left you, then some therapy is in order.
2006-12-13 18:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she loves you as much as you love her, she should understand you didn't have any credits on your phone. If she does call it quits than obviously she isn't very understanding or forgiving. Just call her tonight and apologize for not calling her last night and explain what had happened.
Hopefully everything works out for you two.
My best wishes to you.
2006-12-13 18:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by Rita S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen just explain to her that there was a phone problem and tell her that you really love her and that there would have been nothing in the world that would have stop you from calling her if you phone worked . and stop crying that is a real turn off a woman wants so one that is going to be Strong and protected them not cry .
2006-12-13 19:14:23 · answer #11 · answered by febuary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋