My husband is a construction worker and works out of town about 4 months of the year. I'm so loney when he's gone. He says he misses me wants to be home but he has friends that he works with and therefore has people to talk to when he's gone (they share hotel rooms). I manage a insurance agency and am with clients all day but when I get home it's loney to sit in the house all alone. When I go to a friends house of a relative's house to chit-chat so I won't be alone he gets angry and says I'm never home. I have a cell phone. It's not about reaching me he wants me to be at home. When I try to explain to him that I'm loney in the house alone he doesn't believe me. How do I get him to understand how loney I really am?????
I did ask this question a couple of days ago but I can see there are different people on now.
2006-12-13 10:08:32 · 3 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he has some trust issues that he needs to work out on his own. With him wanting you to always be home when hes gone, means he doesnt trust you. Its probably just something that happened to him in a pervious relationship where he lost all trust with that person, so hes worried the same thing will happen with you. I understand that you cant always stay at home and want to go out and you shouldnt have to be home all the time. Only thing I can suggest is, text message his cell saying your going over to familys house for a visit, let him know you'll message him back when you do get home. Assure him he can always call you when he needs to talk to you. There really isnt much that you can do. Its something that he has to get over. Hes gone for lengths of time and I'm guessing you trust him while hes gone. Let him know that and that he can trust you too.
2006-12-13 11:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to call you on your cell phone, as long as you answer it. Tell him that you miss him very much and are lonely and don't want to be alone and would rather be with family and friends to cheer you up otherwise you will be depressed. Why don't you two text message each other with little messages and let him know how much you miss him....
2006-12-14 11:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by Trese 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does have some issues!! Hello, if you were going out with different men each night or were never answering you phone it would be different
2006-12-13 12:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by loulou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋