I learnt it the hard way.
I got dumped one of the things she said was that money can never buy her love.
I had never had another girlfriend, only the same one for 3 yearsand I really loved her. And it hurts inside.What is your opinion on that Money can't buy you love. Maybe real Love? Do you agree or not.
2006-12-13 09:54:12 · 12 answers · asked by D.cOL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love...love is a many, splendid thing, all you need is love...
My girlfriend loves that film...
I've been with my girlfriend for 4 and a half years. It would be a lie to say we havnt spent alot on each other, and money has taken us to the other side of the world and back. Realistically, money in a relationship is good, it can make things easier.
At the same time it can destroy you. Love isnt about expensive romatic dinners, holidays away, dimonds and nice cars. Its about still holding hands when you leave the orange wednesdays cinema, being able to talk to eachother about anything, staying up listening to your favorate songs, watching a dvd with doretos and dip, with candles and a splash of wine.
You get all that, plus the sex that comes with it, and odd times when you just sit there alone and smile...
Then you got love.
2006-12-13 11:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Drean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's a long story, really long..
Why did she tell you that after 3 years ?? how did you treat her among all those years ?? did you mention money to her? like the normal daily conversations "my car" "my house" "my money" etc etc etc...
Look, if I am in a relation ship with you, and suppose you really love me, but you always mention the "MY" thing or how much you've spent, or how much this cost; then I will think that you want to buy me or my love to you...
Life nowadays is not easy, there are a lot of gold diggers, but still there are few genuine and true people around, those few people are still looking for love and care.. not purely money and wealth..
If you really do care for her, and really in love, then talk it out with her, explain it, apologise if you indirectly did hurt her... just don't waist your time and wait for answers from people who don't know the true story, go to her and talk, be frank and honest...
By the way, I'm not a big fan of women, I've had enough from them, and strongly believe that they are completely different to men, but still believe this is my own experience, bad ones..
Go, talk, explain and apologise............. if you are really not buying her love..
2006-12-13 10:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by alo-bello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor Boy.
So Sad. After 3 years and she is gone? Why? Anyways, you already know that money can't buy you love. You don't have to speak about this here. What about some where else?
Emotional handling is never easy.
2006-12-13 10:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes money buy every thing these days u might be stuck on one thing and thinks thats it nothing else this world is big u got money u can go any where and find lot more then just love u got to get out and explore more not just one corner coz that she said and u cant get over it get over this thing and remember life is short and planty fishes in the sea u got to find it so get out where u r and see explore the world u might find the dimond rather then just gold
xx
2006-12-13 14:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by fizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure can help the process along, It's just according to how much money your talking about. If you mean a good paycheck each week, naw. But if you mean in the millions, yeah it can buy sweet love.
2006-12-13 10:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money cant buy love because why the hell do you need money for love to buy presents like teddys ect people prefer to be shown that thered loved with a kiss, hug ect not gifts.
2006-12-13 09:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money can not buy you love. What does money have to do with loving a person and wanting to be with her? Not all of us women are money grubbing. As long as you are sharing your life with that person,,if you have alot of money or none at all shouldnt matter,,as long as you have eachother. Money does not make someone love you!!
2006-12-13 09:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it can't, however when u have 2 kids a morgage and r barley surviving it can deffinately help u fall out of love.
2006-12-13 10:06:20 · answer #8 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money can not buy love, ever!! There are other girls out there, just have to learn to use the relationship as expereince.
2006-12-13 11:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone is with u for the money than its not love well they might love the money but not u.
to love someone is to be their joy,pain,pleasure and weakness, to be with someone when times a good and bad.
2006-12-13 10:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by mrs nevz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋