okays a few things have happened to me, my body (and yes i know you go through a lot of changes etc etc), but there r some i cant explain and i hope you ladies can help me out.
1.since being pregnant, everytime i have sex its almost as if i pee myself half way throught - not female ejactuation (eugh!) - just a lot of water (not wee either, no smell).... and it happens randomly - i never orgasim during sex so that doesnt explain it. it never happened before i got preg. and i was wondering if it has happened to any1 else cause is extremely embarrasing.
2. the way down there looks has totally changed (yes, i know, expect change) but the 'inner lips' (cant think of any other way 2 describe them) r totally different, and one side actually hangs outside the 'outer lips ' (lol). ive been to drs for internal examinations and they have never mentioned it but it is soooo embarrasing
is there anything i can do about these 2 things? i am paranoid enough about my body post-baby. thanks
2006-12-13 09:51:48 · 6 answers · asked by littleladyclaire 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
its been 2 yrs since i had my son
2006-12-13 09:57:21 · update #1
LMAO!!! im sorry to laugh but you were so sweet and to the point i had to!
I think that everything you have said is all normal its just hormone imbalances.
I am no doc or anything and im just guessing that i think the 'wetness' maybe just alot of discharge you generally have alot more when you are preg even of you dont orgasm you are still aroused during sex and this produces discharge. it will die down (might not tho coz each pregnancy is different)
I dunno about the way it all looks down there but i know that some peoples 'bitns n peaces' change alot. i really shouldnt worry and if you really are worrying then talk to you midwife there wont be anything she hasnt heard .. trust me.
congratulations by the way!
EDIT: Hi, sorry i didnt realise you werent preg still i think its all ok still, hormones are funny things, if you have been to the gyno and it all was clear then i shouldnt worry too much.
Are you on the pill or other form of contraception? this may be why you are feeling weird. good luck again!!
2006-12-13 09:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by chickL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problem 1 - sorry, can't help - but ask a doctor
Problem 2 - isn't a problem. Everyone is different. Inner and outer lips can vary from person to person and at different times of your life/sexual arousal etc.
I didn't 'feel like me' when I washed around the groin after having had my children, but either everything went back to normal soon or else I've forgotten all about it! Good luck - don't be paranoid - it's all natural. (A gynacologist once told me, "a lot of post-natal vaginas are untidy" - a quote I've remembered every since!)
2006-12-13 09:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Older&Wiser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After having a baby everything changes. The fluid you are talking about is probably urine. The pressure of having sex is putting pressure on your bladder. It also happens to some women when they sneeze or cough. It is called stress incontinence. It is expected or normal after having a baby, but if it is bothersome, medications can be prescribed and a surgical procedure could be done.
If these this are bothersome, why have you not talked to your doc?
Also when you are pregnant, your blood volume changes. Your labia majora ( the outer part) may have had some sort of trauma to it if you had a vaginal birth. Check with your doc on that one too.
2006-12-13 10:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Igottheanswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi believe me everything is normal the same things happened to me =)
2006-12-13 22:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by jelliebabe7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Things are fine, quit worring about them. There is nothing you can do. You are a normal women.......
2006-12-13 10:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by ruth4526 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can help you with the first problem. Now that you're pregnant, stop having sex.
2006-12-13 09:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋