I'm one of the most pretties girls at my school.And I have almost all ugly girls hatein on me.What's the deal with that?
2006-12-13 09:41:21 · 22 answers · asked by Mz.Jazzmin 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I don't think that i'm the pretties girls all the guys just do.But that makes all of the ugly girls hate me.
I try to be nice to them but they just think that I'm so
suck up, witah I'm not.I think and care about others.What is with that?
2006-12-13 09:50:07 · update #1
Have you really gone around the room and said "yep, I'm prettier than her, Yep, I'm prettier than her..." Do you think others do? SO called "ugly" girls probably are reacting off your 'tude more than your actual looks... I know what you mean though, I went through the (almost) same thing in school, but the older I get the more I think it may have been how I carried myself... you are the common denominator here, right? Basically, maybe it's you, not them with the problem... I don't mean that in a mean way at all, I'm just trying to give it to you straight...
2006-12-13 09:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be careful how you phrase your question. The way you phrased it makes you sound stuck-up.
Now, first of all, are you absolutly sure alll the girls hate you because of your appearence?
Maybe they think that the way you act around boys is slutty or that you're rude, maybe cause one of their crushes likes you, or you stole one of their boyfirneds.
Maybe they actually are jealous. If this is the case, than just act as nice you can around them. It makes it harder for them to hate you.
If not, then just ignore them.Saying that they're jealous will obviously make them angryier because this usually means that you are so stuck-up that you think this is the only reason they'd be mean to you.
If you are truthful when your asking this question, and if you are really nice to them, then it's because they are stereotyping you. You see, most girls immediatly think that if a girl is pretty, she's stuck-up. But honestly, I think a lot of goths,punks and emos are being a bit hypocritic. I mean, they say that popular girls suck because they stereotype them and it isnt fair to them because they are true to themselves while those populars just run around being slutty to the most hottest guys they can find. But even though they should not be immdeiatly judged by their label, they are doing the same to the populars. they are stereotyping them by saying that.
errrr......sorry about gettting off topic like taht.
conclusion: If you are not a stuck up,slutty, mean or rude or braggy, showoffy, then be super nice to them. Don't be haughty around them. Compliment them. Try to be as kind and non-stuckup as possible.
Good Luck!
P.s. Don't call them uglier. Girls that are mean to you are prolly those types of girls that dont belive in certin girls being prettier than other s and think that every girl is beautiful
2006-12-13 10:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by Skool_Gal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um...I'm not going to judge you or anything. But many "ugly" girls don't care about how "beautiful" a person is. They care and are hurt by the additude of the girl. For example, such girls are very hurt when "pretty" girls call them ugly and look down on them. They don't like snobs.
Ok. Guess what??? I'm one of the prettier girls in my school too!!!! I bet i'm prettier then you all!!! all those "ugly" girls are ugly!!!
Don't I sound snotty?? Yeah...I wouldn't like myself too...(PS: I don't think anyone is ugly. I love all those girls (don't take it the wrong way...I believe that almost everyone has some qualities that people can love about them. You just gotta look past the flaws). And I certainly wouldn't jump on the bandwagon to say i'm one of the prettiest girls in my school. But I love the body God gave me. I wouldn't change it for the world.)
Just be nice to these girls (but not the fake nice). I bet they will be nice to you.
2006-12-13 09:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by Natalya 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Actually, it's usually the the conceited girls hating on other girls and calling them ugly when really they are way prettier.....kinda like you are doing right now, because the only person I see hating on anybody is you.
What people do not like is an ugly attitude. That is probably the reason girls are hating on you, not because of how you look.
HTH : )
2006-12-13 12:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Erm get a life and please dont come back on this site. Maybe if you could try being nice instead of acting like everyother okay looking girl they would not hate you. i doubt they hate you for the way you look. Alot of girls at school use to hate me...and my friends use to say thats the reason they hate me but it was'nt. It was because i was stuck my own *** and never gave others a chance.
2006-12-13 09:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by brandoleigh 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Could it be that you think too much of your self and not enough about them? Maybe if you got over how good looking you are and started see how good of people they are you would see they are justified in the hatin'. Just my thoughts I don't know you so I'm sure I'm wrong.
2006-12-13 09:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mike E 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Because you think like that, do you not realize the vibe your giving off. Like you are better than the 'ugly' girls. Do you even try and be nice?
2006-12-13 09:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by Dizzy 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It's stuck up to call people "ugly girls".
2006-12-13 10:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by lala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea.. I know where you're coming from..I'm not sure I guess maybe because they are jealous..I'm nice to everyone and people still do that whether it be at work or school..Just hold your head up and be nice to them! Whatever you do, don't act like you know you are prettier than them because then they will just be really rude to you..
2006-12-13 09:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by sorry richard! ps :amanda 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'd say its due to your ego, to even ask a question like this... Good luck finding out though!
2006-12-13 09:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋