if guys really want and care more about other hot girls and their real true want is to be a playboy then why do they settle down? is it cuz u want sum1 to cook and clean for u (y do girls put up w/ this kind of ****? them working and loving the guy and **** when they guy could care less and looks at other women naked and flrits and ****)
and what would you pick in heaven to be w/ the person u love or other sluts (remember it's heaven so u can choose what you want)
2006-12-13 09:21:38 · 9 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
+ Perhaps the grass is still greener or so the saying goes.
2006-12-13 10:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Look at my awnsers to other questions about stuff like this if you want to see more about what I think of it.
Basicly though.
I think about 70% (im being nice) of guys are immature males. Notice I didnt say men, thats beacuse I dont think of guys like that real men. Though many claim to be, they dont no half the definition.
I think masturbation is lame and cheap and porn even lower then that, I give slight benifit for masturbation beacuse with or without lust, guys still biolgicly feel the need for release every 72 hours or so. (just beacuse of sperm build up) throw that onto an overly sexualy crazed culture, its frickin dinomite.
I think when a guy looks at porn or masturbates reguraly dont see women as fully and truly beautiful as you all are, they just see you for your flesh and what they can get. thats lame.
Some might kinda care for personality but still will want to just get in the sack with you in some part of there mind. Sad truth.
I think that guys need to grow up and start looking at and treating women like there ment to be treated as a help mate, best friend and copanion that God sent them to be, our other half. Its not all about looks, its about there hearts and personalitys and attitudes as well guys.
2006-12-14 04:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by robertt223 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heaven? Is this some kind of organised religious reference?
I don't believe in the drivel of modern man, be it organised religions or double-standards (hypocrisy, manipulation, etc...).
What you describe is what the typical modern male seeks to achieve in his life. Males are in general very dependant on the other sex, or at least the idea of a partner in life.
I was once told that the modern male looks for a "queen" to be his mate for public show-off, while looking for a "whore" for his sexual stimulation. There is a deep rooted fear in males that they can't seem to share sexual intimicy with the person they "love". I think males are threatened by the idea of true intimicy, and use sex as a veil to appear to be these sexual creatures when in fact they use sex as a means of manipulation and to allow their own public image to appear more "studdly" in the eyes of their peers.
I think men have many issues (now more than ever in today's Bizarro world) concerning their trust and intimacy towards their partner(s) and their desires. Obviously all men wish they could bed as many women as they want, even though this is in direct conflict with the ideal of a partner for life.
In conclusion, I myself have been married for eons now and haven't cheated at all... In fact, oddly enough, I find myself mostly repulsed by other women; the women of today with their cell phones and fake allures.
Cheers
2006-12-14 08:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they do this cause of the horrible double-standard !!!!
They want it both ways - they think this is their God-given right as a man to have it both ways.
The remedy is for women to act the SAME WAY & to settle with a guy - then have lovers on the side. that will correct the problem.
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NOTE to NITTANYIS - I am a guy - but don't think like you do . U represent the primitive Neanderthal double-standard. U could say what you want - I'd rather be me than you anytime. I want women to change & make things equal. I'm modern - You're neanderthal. in your thinking. & I wouldn't want to think like you do, not for a second. it's too primitive.
2006-12-13 17:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Youll never get a decent guy with that kind of attutide.
"Danny" who left the post a few mins ago, I hope your a girl bc if youre a dude. Youre a huge sissy....lol
2006-12-13 18:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by nittanyisland2000 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ofcourse guy do this for ur reasons........
but i think few of them think women as their friend.......
and on the other hand girls of today do the same.........
it is natural.......that we need someone to live with
2006-12-13 18:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kashish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we just like hot girls. its natural. when we settle down, its who we love, not LIKE.
2006-12-13 18:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by kino 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
guy need that for some reason we have to have something we need it so dont take it away from us because he will leave and verry mad too
2006-12-13 18:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, we I don't know what to say.
2006-12-13 19:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Kloberc3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋