I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. I am only accepted by few people because of a "mistake" I made, with my ex BF....... Should I accept this and not care what people think?
2006-12-13 09:12:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know what... if people don't accept you for who you are. Than you don't need them. They were never worth your time. Just always remember, everyone makes mistakes. And if your "friends" really cared for you. They'd be by your side. You need to talk to them, and see what they expect of you. Because, clearly they have high expectations of you. And if their expectations are too high for your likings. Than you really don't need them in your life. I'm sure you can find better friends that accept you for everything that truly matters.
2006-12-13 09:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you need to ask the people who are turning away from you because of mistake you made IF they are perfect?? And if so then ask them to walk on water-- Don't waste your time with those that don't accept you for you no matter what mistakes you have made--A true friend stands beside you NOT behind you and talks bad about you --
2006-12-13 09:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure whether you think you made a mistake, or only your friends think you made a mistake and you don't think so.
If you AND your friends think you made a mistake, just keep being friendly and don't make the mistake again. And look for some new friends that are compatible with you.
If you don't agree that you made a mistake, then look for some friends that think more like you do.
2006-12-13 10:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They weren't true friends anyways because they wouldn't have cared about a previous mistake. Try some new friends out - go to a new place or join a new group.
Best of luck honey!
2006-12-13 09:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to find new friends, girlfriend! If they were your true friends they would've stuck by you. Just wait, they will make a bad mistake someday too, then they will know how you felt! But by then you'll have moved on with new buds! Good luck!
2006-12-13 09:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by trabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just accept yourself, and don't let society choose who you are. Be who you want to be. And if you think all of your friends have abandoned you, I'll be your friend through thick and thin. Call me sometime, if you like. 918 335 2955 or 918 914 9725 Ask for Kevin. Don't worry about what others think of who you are, you are who you are, and only YOU have control over that. It doesn't matter what others think of you.
2006-12-13 09:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not abondon you! If you were my friend! You should only care if you want to!
2006-12-13 09:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋