im going to this new church, and honestly i dont fit in. there all into there cliques! and im just sort of into hanging with everyone! and i mean ppl walked to me and the one group of ppl that i hung out with ended up being seniors! its so nuts! i ended up being with 8-10th grade. so i just barly missed them! its so irratating, shold i change my personallity so i'll fit in?
2006-12-13 09:12:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anna Costner 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, of course not. It's church though. Find people to hang out with at school. I don't talk to anybody at my church bercause they're all the same. Be yourself, and f uck them if they don't want to be your friend. How long are you at your church, anyway? It's only a few hours out of the week at most right? If you don't end up finding any friends, you can be alone for a few hours out of the week.
2006-12-13 09:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, no, do not change your personality to fit in. You will still feel like you fit in.
Second, you should really consider checking the grammar of your questions. I have no clue what you say seniors and 8-10th grade...also use the spell check feature. It's right there, why on earth do you still have misspellings?
2006-12-13 09:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by tulane2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're going to the wrong Church.
Find another one that has a youth group that welcomes new people and showers them with true Christian love. Never change your character or personality to please someone else. Eventually, you'd end up not liking yourself.
Just be you. Just find a new Church. Best to you!
2006-12-13 09:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant tell how old you are, so I'm not sure which age group you want to be with. Don't try to change who you are. Be who you are, but be friendly to the group you want to be most associated with. Shortly they'll see how cool you are and want you to be a part of their group. In the meantime, enjoy everyone. Every person there has something to share with you. Be open to find it.
2006-12-13 09:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change your personality for any reason,especially just to fit in. Be your self, if you don't like that church find another
2006-12-13 09:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by Urchin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts ?????? You want to change who you are to so that other people will except you thats the stupidest thing that i have ever heard, HONESTLYyou should be yourself and hang out with everyone, you should do what you want dispite what other people want
2006-12-13 09:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never change yourself for someone else. look for others that seem like they aren't in the clique... or maybe you should find another church to hang out at!
besides, would you want to change yourself to be friends with someone who didn't like you when you were being your true self?
stay true to yourself!!
2006-12-13 09:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hell no!! Do not change for anyone. If they do not like you, it is there lose not yours. And if you changed to fit in, would you really be happy? It is much easier to be yourself. You just need to keep searching to find your nich.
2006-12-13 09:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by Debra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never change to fit into some else's mold. Be your own person and things will fall into place.
2006-12-13 09:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never change your personality to fit it. Then they're not really liking you for you, and then they're liking you for all the wrong reasons. If they dont like you for you, then its their loss, and they're missing out.
2006-12-13 09:20:35 · answer #10 · answered by Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋