I was in English 3 (im in highschool) and the teacher gave us a review for our final exam (we can't be exempt from 3rd and 4th period for some reason) and you know we had some free time. This dude told some joke and a couple people lauged and when i laughed all of a sudden he got serious and said "why u laughin man? That wasn't amusing." , Like what the hell? he was just laughin. I'm like one of the only ones he does that too and when he took my candy cane i was like "gimme my candy cane back man" he started laughin idk why it gotta be like this hes friggin 17 and playin games while im 16 gettin ready for the world and gettin my life together and getting more serious about school. I'm not really worried about it im just curious. He's the one thats a friggin sophomore(he's supposed to be a junior like me) and about to drop out next semester (he said so himself). Why does he have to be like that?
2006-12-13 09:09:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Could it be because he has low self esteem and hes trying to make himself feel better by laughing at me?
2006-12-13 09:11:43 · update #1
Could it be because he has low self esteem and hes trying to make himself feel better by laughing at me?
2006-12-13 09:11:47 · update #2
Could it be because he has low self esteem and hes trying to make himself feel better by laughing at me?
2006-12-13 09:13:09 · update #3
sounds like he has some problems and he can make himself a big shot or a show off by putting someone else down. I just kinda feel sorry for him
2006-12-13 09:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by l_iwoman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm in college and people still act juvenile. Maybe he likes you. This is a common way that "boys" act. Heck, some mature men act this way as well. Makes you think-maturity is in the eye of the beholder.
My best advise for you would be "rise above it.". You will encounter very strange behavior like this when guys like you but are too shy or they are not sure if they should tell you about their attraction. Focus on your studies, which is more important and tell him to...Chalk it up and grow up....
2006-12-13 09:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by yashua_is_eternal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he probably has personal issues and seems like he may be a bully. Additionally, this could be his immature way of trying to communicate with you and get to know you. In other words, he may just be "giving you a hard time" in order to get to know you better. The best way to respond to someone like this is to not act like the victim. For example, do not act upset or try to defend yourself. Be cautious of using "I" language. Focus the situation back onto him. Take what he does as a joke, and respond in a joking way. If he is willing to dish it out, he should be willing to take it. If you respond in a serious and frightened tone, it could worsen his behavior.
2006-12-13 09:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that he has a big trouble.
may be some complex.
you ignore what he says and from now on, only talk to him when be absolutelly necessary.
If he ask you something about the class, reply......on the contrary, make as he is invisible for you.
It works most of the times
2006-12-13 09:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by حلاَمبرا hallambra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously didn't have the tools to mature into his age like you have. Let his parents figure it out when they go bail him out of jail.
You just keep your head on straight and don't worry about him. You take care of you first and then let the others fall in line behind you.
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2006-12-13 09:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by Miss P. Square Pinky Swear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Methinx there are greater tragedies to complain about
2006-12-13 09:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by DougDoug_ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋