People get so caught up in what they think is perfect that they for get to live and let live. My question is why are we so quick to give up and not want to accept inperfections and faults of our loved ones?
2006-12-13 09:00:04 · 13 answers · asked by Kitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
one word:selfishness
2006-12-13 09:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Arizona A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the "imperfection" I refused to accept in my ex-husband was his constant lying and cheating. Oh, and he was a SEVERE "momma's boy." I agree that people get all worked up over small things, but in a marriage, both people need to be happy. So, if one person is not happy then something should be done. Also, saying that something is a small imperfection is very subjective. A small thing to you might be a big issue to another person. Anyway, why are you worried about other people's relationships?
2006-12-13 09:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by danika1066 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This society that we live in is so impatient. People want everything perfect and they want it now. In fast food restaurants I have seen people get impatient after only waiting 2 minutes for their food. They also think the grass is greener on the other side. They are blinded. Instead of a fix and repair society we have a throw away society. If something is broke they would rather discard it then fix it.
2006-12-13 09:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 06:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I call it trading-up. Especially if you live here in LA. People seem to think they can do better when sometimes they fail to realise they have something unique and special with that person.
2006-12-13 09:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you are coming from..... It's like fighting the MaTrIx out here! lol
However, I stand upon the Word of GOD...when it speaks of what love is.....so it all depends on how strong your faith or belief in love is!
2006-12-13 09:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human beings run around feeding our egos- some more than others.
That is really the reason.
2006-12-13 09:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont have an answer for this, but thank you for asking this question. It kind of knocked me back down to reality, as I have been selfish. Thank you.
2006-12-13 09:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by Steph C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what the fault is...
If it's abuse, then there's no logical reason to accept that behavior.
If they leave the cap off of the toothpaste, then I see your point.
2006-12-13 09:05:41 · answer #9 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some ppl see them and are like:
omg they are so beautiful ill make them my girl!
well sometimes they dont see the person on the inside so they just break up with them when teh find the disadvantage!
2006-12-13 10:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by Rose M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
society has put allll kind of bullsh*t in peoples head about the whos and whats of life
2006-12-13 09:05:24 · answer #11 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋