I see so many posts on what attracts women to other women, and ESPECIALLY what attracts feminine women to butch or tomboyish women, and i dont understand the confusion here! It's not rocket science. Hell, its not even basic addition. It is what it is. Some women are more comfortable dressed non-feminine and some womed find that to be extremely sexy (such as myself) No I do NOT want a man. Nor do i want a woman who THINKS she is a man. Im not attracted to the male clothes, im attracted to the person as a whole. And if that person isnt into the whole girly pink prissy scene, then so be it!! So why is this so hard to understand?
2006-12-13 08:57:59 · 18 answers · asked by Raynebow_Diva 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
And yes my girlfriend is a stud and I LOVE everything about her
2006-12-13 09:01:56 · update #1
WOW..ok then..I know your venting but thanx u just enlightened me to something I didn't know..and that is the fact I always seem to attract lipstick femmes..and didn't know y..even all the guys/gals i know always end up asking the same stupid question..what da hell does she see in u?..I'm not a guy..don't wanna be..I'm tomboyish or as some say a tweener..lol..so even if somebody irritates u cause they should know..hell I admit it I sure as heck didn't know..so in a good way I am glad someone else asked the question cause I sure do love your answer..peace~
2006-12-13 09:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by Charmer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Brick wall
2016-05-23 20:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by Dorothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the law of mutual attraction I guess. The same way you like someone or don't like someone (male or female) when you meet them the first time and don't know anything about them.
Same way there is always that one guy or girl in the group you hang out with that you don't like even though they have never done anything to you.
2006-12-13 09:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because explaining this topic is like talking to a brick wall. Jus' some people will never understand, not matter how easy it is to grasp.
2006-12-13 09:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn I like you. I agree with what your saying clothing does not make the person the person makes the person. Butch and butch fem and fem fem and butch it all happens because people fall in love with the person not with the clothing
2006-12-13 09:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The masculine gender role in the female gender. That is what you're attracted to. Period. Explain it like that next time. People will understand. Stop making it difficult by raving on....
2006-12-13 09:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you feel the need to explain anything to anyone? If they don't "get it", they just don't get it. Don't waste energy on non-productive activities. It will just frustrate you. If the people in your circle don't understand you ... perhaps it is time to move on to a more enlightened group. Best of luck to you!
2006-12-13 09:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by sandye2831 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is hard to understand because people (including myself) can't understand why a woman would want another woman. So people want to know why a woman would want another woman when a man could do what a woman does.
2006-12-13 09:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by Chrisy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Same reason why quantum physics comes naturally to some, while it takes some effort for others. Unfamiliarity in foreign waters...
2006-12-13 09:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by §чﺀﺀчβчﻯ†a 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats because some people are far to thick to ever understand! Its best really to save your breath and don't try to educate 'these' people
2006-12-13 09:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by theguyintelford 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋