It seems like such a dirty act.
What is so appealing about it?
2006-12-13 08:51:07 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Because so many of your (plural form) answers are inquiring: No, I have not "done it" yet. And I really do not have the desire to yet either. (no offense. I am merely trying to understand the "why's" of the act.)
2006-12-13 09:01:00 · update #1
It's not a "dirty act", it's the way we as humans express our love to our partner, married or not in some cases. It's a way of bringing children into the world. When you have found the right person that you want to spend the rest of your life with (whether or not you and your partner decide to get married) you will find out that it's not "dirty" but that it's actually fun and can be exciting with the right person.
2006-12-13 09:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by rokthunder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you love someone there is nothing dirty about it. Maybe you think is dirty because you are doing it with someone or should not be doing it at all. Sex (Making love)is about uniting both your bodies together and share the love that you have for one another. Have you ever had sex? and when your done you just hug one another and enjoy the moment you just had? It is magical at least to me it is. I have been with my husband since I was 15 and now I have been married for 11 years. Because of this thing you called dirty (we created with the help of the man upstairs two beautiful kids) a 6yr old and an 19 month old. What's so dirty about that? I think when you do it for the right reasons there is nothing dirty about it.
2006-12-13 08:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by rp12801280 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The problem may be in the question.
The desire to have sex to further the human race is just behind breathing, drinking, eating and sex.
The reason, I believe and have written about, that humans have been successful and survived is because of their very unusual and high sex drive and the ability for human females to become pregnant every day.
With all the really unpleasant things humans have to do by nature that we overlook in our modern society, the natural desire for males to risk everything including their lives to have sex and protect their sexual opportunity is really overlooked in our society.
The recent story of what a man was willing to do walking in the snow and mountains and giving his life to try to save his family is what most men do everyday but not respected or realized by the high noise level and preceived technologically advanced society.
Most wish to forget or abolish all the basic things that have made humans able to survive for hundreds of thousands of years because we have TV, radio, computers and cell phones.
The fact that human females are so sensitive to voices, facial expressions and being attractive really shows how nature has produced the human female to know how important her survival is to keeping a male to provide and protect her. Her life totally depends on males.
Males are willing to naturally go out, work (hunt) risk their lives to secure sexual opportunity and continue their known genes by requiring the devotion of a mate.
The fact humans have "overlooked" all that you question asks and are both willing to overlook these factors, proves how important this is for the continuance of humans.
This has been done and going on for hundreds of thousands of years in one form or another. It is only during short periods of time a society become dominant, wealthy, powerful where it starts promoting the idea the past is not important. All of these societies and nations have failed after reaching this point.
For men, most will do whatever it takes as always to impress and secure their sexual opportunity. It only comes through a femization of a society that this starts becoming into question.
Men are simple. Women are sensitive. Throughout history doing what's in the best interests of humans has taken on different appearances. Just think of the very short times ago where people did not brush their teeth, no deodorant, no baths. It has only been in the last few tens of years that humans didn't really smell bad. Really bad. Yet, they had babies which meant they had sex. Which meant there is something more than what your asking involved in the desire and demand to further the human species.
For those disagreeing with this, is not unusual for it has happened to basically every civilization that has become the most powerful, most wealthy, most technologically advanced in the world.
The only question is whether our society, our country will be the first in history to overcome this, correct its self and survive as having the highest standard of living for the last 270 years.
The best answer to your question is the fact that if you cannot write down 10 new things each day of what you are grateul for, you are unable to appreciate or even reconize any one thing you
could receive and should appreciate tomorrow.
Thank you for your time and consideration.
DRSANGLE
2006-12-13 09:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by drsangle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The appealing thing is that if you have never done it YOU WANT TO. It is the forbidden act that is played out to be so attractive that everyone wants to join the club. The idea of the act is much more appealing than the actual act.
2006-12-13 08:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl you have to accept nature like it is!
Sex provides body and mind health. It is a very strong basic instinct that you have, to provide our species the chance to survive, and nature is so amazingly infinity creative...
If we didn't have this desire, libido and achieve one of the most intense feelings that body can provide (the Orgasm), sex would be very unpleasant...
It would be painful for both, it would be dirty with fluids, women dignity could be questioned (there, naked, with her legs to much open or on her knees, like a dog), to strong smell, not a very nice video so see...how could we??)
If it wasn't so good, so pleasant, so powerful, human animals wouldn't have sex! No sex, no baby's!!!
Try to put yourself in a bigger picture than the one you are now... and see how could this be without sex! And why it can be so good and provide a good spar of happiness in this small world!
You only have one (very short) life! Why is people so mad about sex for millions of years... why?
Accept it. Explore it.Keep it simple!
2006-12-13 09:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok honestly it can be very dirty. If you are sharing your body with someone that respects and honors you though it is a much different experience. Not a HS fling or anything like that but someone that truly loves you and is in love with you. Those are two very different things. Sex can be very beautiful and I hope that someday you are able to experience that feeling.
2006-12-13 08:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dirty?! Not unless you make it dirty. If you are looking to have clean sex try going into the shower to get your hanky-pank on. I think it is appealing on a chemical level right up through every other level I can think of.
2006-12-13 08:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing sexual is dirty, it's natural chemicals in the body that give people the feelins of having the desire to have sex, aka feeling horny, when they see something they find attractive.
2006-12-13 08:56:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My first question back to you would have to be how old are you??? When you finally meet someone that you love and feel so comfortable with that anything and everything feels right, you will experience the greatest part of being in love, the intimate time spent making love.
2006-12-13 09:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by mason 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whats dirty?! who shoved these horrible lies down your throat?
read below
"firstly it is a gift from God to those who honor the married state in life, and when it is part of married love it is quite beautiful,outside of this it is just bestial lust."
dude thats a buncha horse crap. see how religion lies to you. is the same thing wether you are married or not. nothing wrong with having sex wether you are married or not married. just not good if you catch a disease or get someone pregnant and can't /won't supoort your new child
2006-12-13 08:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by akihabro 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋