i am bi and in highschool...and i naturaly dont act feminine...like when im outside of school of hangin out with my family i act regular straight like..(without putting on an act) but when im in school i tend to be more feminine for some reason...espeacily when im around guys i really like..or if i get a little accited. and den when i leave school its back to my regular self...its so weird, its like i got 2 personalites! can someone help me learn how to control some of my behaviors????like to be more masculine without liftin weights! please help out...thanks....
2006-12-13 08:44:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe the thing is to just be you, and try not to be so self-conscious about whether you're being feminine or masculine. The trick I learned in high school is this: everyone is so worried about the zit on their nose that they don't have time to worry about the zit on your nose.
If you really want to be straight-acting, then study it. Watch other people, watch television and movies, and notice what others do. How do they use their hands, how do they talk, what do they say?
But, personally, I'd go with just being you.
2006-12-13 18:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question, dude. I'm sorry I don't have any insight for you. Hehe I'm stuck in the same boat as you, my friend!
2006-12-13 22:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋